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Boyfriend wants anal :S

Meaning, he wants ME to give HIM anal :s-smilie: Like he wants me to wear a strap on and also finger him.....I told him that I find this weird, but he really wants it and says "if you loved me you would, I would do it for you if you wanted something"

Is it really normal for guys to want this....it seems abit gay....and would any girl really feel comfortable doing this (cause I know I wouldnt) thoughts please????

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Yah go for it
My bf has suggested that too but only when both drunk and in the heat of the moment so not sure how much he wants it really. If he ever brings it up seriously I'm not sure I would do it :no:.
Reply 3
Anonymous
Meaning, he wants ME to give HIM anal :s-smilie: Like he wants me to wear a strap on and also finger him.....I told him that I find this weird, but he really wants it and says "if you loved me you would, I would do it for you if you wanted something"

Is it really normal for guys to want this....it seems abit gay....and would any girl really feel comfortable doing this (cause I know I wouldnt) thoughts please????


The fun of a sexual relationship is the exploration of eachothers bodies

Fingers & Tongue - Normal
Strap on - Extreme but whatever floats your boat
Reply 4
If this isn't a troll then he's gay.
Reply 5
Not unheard of, not sure what i would do in your situation mind you..
he shouldn't say 'if you love me' puts you in an awkward position.
Reply 6
Just wait for 4 pages of arguing if this is gay or not
You should not. You should however go to B&Q and purchase him a closet to hide in.
Reply 8
Taking your girlfriend to the pictures - £15 .... Having a good night out together - £30 ... the look on your girlfriends face when you ask her to give you anal - Priceless.
Reply 9
So basically he said, "If you love me you'll bum me"?

Erm.....
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Reply 10
It is a bit of a strange one for a straight guy, ever suspected he is bi-curious?
this has bought back sum horrible memories of my missus fingering my *******. its not normal, feels nasty and kills the mood. how ever i enjoy ****ing her in the ass from time to time!
Reply 12
If you're not comfortable with it, then don't do it, if HE LOVES YOU then he should accept this.
Reply 13
bit gay, I would be worried OP.
If pegging is what floats his boat it's what floats his boat. Hardly like it's a massive chore for you is it? Just put on the strap on, insert in boyfriend, move hips back and forth. For once he won't have to do all the work.

And before the inevitable: it's not gay. Just not very manly, m'kay.
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Apparantly there's something in the male bottom that can be stimulated.

I don't think it's gay, and anyone that says it is very ignorant. However if you feel uncomfortable don't do it.
Robbert
Taking your girlfriend to the pictures - £15 .... Having a good night out together - £30 ... the look on your girlfriends face when you ask her to give you anal - Priceless.

:rofl:

OP: It's not unheard of (or gay), but up to you whether you do it - guilting you by saying that you'd do it if you loved him isn't right, there are some things you wouldn't do either way.
ewwwww are you sure he's not bi he could be craving some male action :/
Reply 18
If you dont want to, don't do it. If you're worried about gayness, just say no homo while you're bumming him.
Am i the only one who thinks this isn't gay, its female on male, hows it gay, what.