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Freezing up
I have a real problem of just freezing up and being really guarded around guys and I know its due to one really bad relationship but I don't know how to just loosen up and relax a bit as I just think that a guy will just break my trust or he's too good for me and will just get bored-AGH! I don't know! Help!
Hmm - it must be difficult loosening up to guys because of your past experience. Maybe give guys some time before you let go so to speak, maybe relax a little knowing you're not in anything commited or serious.
Perhaps the only time to really let go is when you fully trust a person. That said it must be hard because of what happened before. Talk to different guys trying to get to know them as friends; again it's easier said than done.
If you think you've found the right guy, take it slow and a little casual - try to trust in him and use your judgement. Im sure over time you'll loosen up a little; guys aren't all bad!
Good luck
Perhaps the only time to really let go is when you fully trust a person. That said it must be hard because of what happened before. Talk to different guys trying to get to know them as friends; again it's easier said than done.
If you think you've found the right guy, take it slow and a little casual - try to trust in him and use your judgement. Im sure over time you'll loosen up a little; guys aren't all bad!
Good luck
ye, try making more male friends and develop relationships from there. Its not easy i know, i really struggle to trust men, my relationship has come from a strong friendship. It really can work!
Lauren Hart
ye, try making more male friends and develop relationships from there. Its not easy i know, i really struggle to trust men, my relationship has come from a strong friendship. It really can work!
Yep i totally agree.
I had problems trusting guys as well, i was pretty close friends for a few months with my guy till we started going out as well
Its the best way (IMO!)
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