im a bit confused

Ok so heres the story, i meet this guy lastweek and we hit it off and stuff and the next few days go by and were getting pretty touchy feely and pretty much well yeah feeling all over in public...thing is we never really even kissed even though we've gone pretty far just with the touching..but thats kinda besides the point. so this past wednesday goes by and he calls me up at 12:30am saying he wants to see me and stuff (he was kinda drunk, just got in from a sports bar) and so he comes over and were both doing the same, touchy thing agian lol. we wanted to have sex but couldn't cause it was my time of the month. i didnt want to tell him that in words so i kept going 'guessss why i cant' and he kept asking if i was saving myself (even tho im not a virgin lol) so he finally guesses why and then he kind of like stoppped everything alltogether and we went to sleep in my bed. so now its tuesday and im downstairs in the lobby playing poker with bunch of people and he comes in and stands there and some chick comes up and gives him a hug and he hugs her back (shes the type that goes around to every guy hanging off them) and i get pretty jealous and say im going to bed lol, so i leave and this guy talks to me on msn telling me i should come by cause he's bored...so of course i gave in and went down to see him and we played playstion till like 3am in the morning and then he starts tickling me and takes my shirt off. but it goes as far as that. but im really confused lol. the first nite he said he liked me but now it's like im not sure if he does or not anymore. so im confused :frown:

cause i reallllllly reallllly like him alot :frown:

and i cant stop thinking about him even tho ive known him such a short time and all.

sorry for this long and boring thing. i dont know what to say, it kinda feels good to get that out lol. but im confused and i really hope he does like me still

Reply 1

Segat1

OK, so he stopped the minute you told him you *surfing the crimson wave*. Babe, I would have too. If I were that way inclined!

He OBV still likes you but you NEED to talk to him about this and find out if he likes you more than a shagobject. Don't shag him if you don't want to. Don't think "he will like me if i sleep with him", cos it doesnt work like that.

Talk to him - find out what he wants and take it S L O W L Y. cos it sounds like you're quite taken with him.

Reply 2

Dekota

I would say its not u who is confused; it's your boyfriend.

Reply 3

terance

If he'll find out how much you like him ,if it's not bidirectional,he might take advantage of that ;besides that ,I agree with segat1 :take it slowly ,don't rush into things !(that is if you're not only interrested to have sex with him)

Reply 4

Reue

I read through all of that and personally the guy has acted exactly as i would. If im playin round with a girl and she says its her time i kinda back away right away :wink:

Anywayz, from what you;ve said its obvious he really lieks you, infact i couldnt actually see what it was you were confused about!

Reply 5

Lauren Hart

ye, i dont think i would really be in the mood to have sex or be touched during my period! He was probably being considerate of your feelings and not wanting to go there too! And he didnt just leave, he slept with you (in the sleeping sense). I would slow it down though, until you know what he's after, though i spose if you dont mind meaninless sex it doesnt really matter, i dont know what way inclined you are.