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How to findout whether a guy fancy you or not??

How to findout whether a guy fancy you or not??I'm always Confuse at this type of thing, hehe~ well i fancy a new guy in my school but i confuse on how he feel about me. anybody could hlep me a little on this one please.

Reply 1

Harv616

9

Ask him?
Ask one of his friends to ask him?
or just be friends with him awhile and ask him then

Reply 2

ellen8899

OP

well because he is new in our year so he always stay around with two other guys who knows him before, and normally I don't get the chance to get to know him properly, so kind of holding back, also it will be embarrassing if he refuse me , hehe~ oh no.

Reply 3

Poica

14

Ask him. Lads are idiots. Otherwise you'll never know

Reply 4

Vickstar

Have a look at this thread. http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/t161204.html (signs a guy likes you)
this could give you some ideas whether he fancies you or not.

Reply 5

Calvin

14

Small steps. Smile at him and see what happens. Does he pay any attention to you at all?

Alternatively, avoid the effort and ask the guy.

Reply 6

gas_panic!

12

If you notice him looking at you when he thinks you can't see him. If he's paying attention to you then he fancies.

Reply 7

ellen8899

OP

Thank you all, but "luckily" I just find out today that he have a girl friend. I saw by mistake on his laptop screen there is a Large photo of him with a really nice girl, and they look so happy together and suddenly I just lose the words. I had been talk to him for few times before and I feel pretty special but I guess I was wrong. Well I thought would be better if I able to find out how he think about me but by the time I really find out it just hurt me quiet a lots. It is a strange thing when you fancy someone and now I really need to think how to get over it. It’s so difficult to fancy the right person and my heart never listen to me. I feel pretty helpless in all this type of thing.

Reply 8

john171

11

ellen8899

Thank you all, but "luckily" I just find out today that he have a girl friend. I saw by mistake on his laptop screen there is a Large photo of him with a really nice girl, and they look so happy together and suddenly I just lose the words. I had been talk to him for few times before and I feel pretty special but I guess I was wrong. Well I thought would be better if I able to find out how he think about me but by the time I really find out it just hurt me quiet a lots. It is a strange thing when you fancy someone and now I really need to think how to get over it. It’s so difficult to fancy the right person and my heart never listen to me. I feel pretty helpless in all this type of thing.

Well, I hear there's more fish in the sea.

If you're into fish that is. :p:

Reply 9

Poica

14

Yep, been there, feels like someone's gutted you with a very large hook and you're empty and ragged. That immediate feeling lasts only about a day or two, but it'll hurt in different ways for longer. Hope you feel better soon.

Reply 10

RoCkPoRt

try something really inventive and clever... like asking him.

Reply 11

Calvin

14

Don't you just love people who don't read the thread...

Reply 12

killerbee

12

i likea guy and itw turned out he wasgay - can yo smeelll sesameee seed oil

Reply 13

Kondar

1

Listen people, never straight out ask a guy if he likes you or not!! Ever heard of being savy, playing it cool. There are ways to find out if a guy likes you or not.

1) interact with him, does he take time and make an effort for you?

2) if you get a chance to sit down with him, read his body langauge, is his body position pointed in your direction?

3) try to meet him somewhere at a party/school function, etc... away from school or work and see if he goes after you (most guys will)

-these are 3 simple ways to kind of 'feel' if a guy is into you are not.

If a girl came up and asked me if I liked her and I did, then I would be a bit put off by it.

Reply 14

yo-less

2

kill yourself.based on his immediate reaction,you should be able to deduce his feelings

Reply 15

Amlea

1

the girlfriend thing..been there got the t shirt..it hurts but u accept i guess after a few days!! good luck hun!

Reply 16

evil groove

BhArJ

Ask him?
Ask one of his friends to ask him?
or just be friends with him awhile and ask him then

It is not that easy if you really like someone. If you can just go up and ask someone whether they fancy you, then you should question whether you fancy them at all. There's the risk that they'll say no, and wash away the fantasy of your whole imagined future together, which would be very sad indeed. :>.<: :s:

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ellen8899

Thank you all, but "luckily" I just find out today that he have a girl friend. I saw by mistake on his laptop screen there is a Large photo of him with a really nice girl, and they look so happy together and suddenly I just lose the words. I had been talk to him for few times before and I feel pretty special but I guess I was wrong. Well I thought would be better if I able to find out how he think about me but by the time I really find out it just hurt me quiet a lots. It is a strange thing when you fancy someone and now I really need to think how to get over it. It’s so difficult to fancy the right person and my heart never listen to me. I feel pretty helpless in all this type of thing.

Girl on photo...perhaps his sister/ cousin?

Reply 17

RoCkPoRt

Kondar

Listen people, never straight out ask a guy if he likes you or not!! Ever heard of being savy, playing it cool. There are ways to find out if a guy likes you or not.

1) interact with him, does he take time and make an effort for you?

2) if you get a chance to sit down with him, read his body langauge, is his body position pointed in your direction?

3) try to meet him somewhere at a party/school function, etc... away from school or work and see if he goes after you (most guys will)

-these are 3 simple ways to kind of 'feel' if a guy is into you are not.

If a girl came up and asked me if I liked her and I did, then I would be a bit put off by it.

holy ****... your not the sharpest tool in the box are you? maybe its just because your american, but that **** would never happen here.. not where i live anyway. if a girl really wants you, she'll chase you, she'll be after your ass until she gets it. that is all you need to know.

Reply 18

ellen8899

OP

Thanks for all the people who give me advise, because I do need it. Well I am not very clever at this type of thing so thank you all and I really appreciate it.
I still see him around and still not really get over it, but I don’t feel that sad anymore because I think it would be good enough if he could just be my good friend. Well as you people said there is more fish in the sea. So I hope I could hook up the right “fish” someday.
He is quiet special and hopefully we could get chance know each other a little bit more as a friend way, well wish me luck. Thanks!
P.S hope you all have a nice day and best of luck for everything

Reply 19

Kondar

1

RoCkPoRt

holy ****... your not the sharpest tool in the box are you? maybe its just because your american, but that **** would never happen here.. not where i live anyway. if a girl really wants you, she'll chase you, she'll be after your ass until she gets it. that is all you need to know.

Well, if that were the case then this thread would not be neccesary. Then again, it sounds as if the girls that we date are of a different cailiber. Girls in the states are a little more savvy. Or maybe your just one of those northerners that I've heard so much about in my southern society. Where your idea of coutrship and dating would be about as classy as a dog having its way with the sofa cushion.

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