Love someone but cheat on them? Why?

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Reply 40

Atomic Dave

willey

Completely agree with you mate. There is no excuse for cheating.

Ditto.

Reply 41

CherryGarcia

I dont understand why people cheat, I just think, it depends on a personality. For example, I have a friend of mine, and hse always was cheating on all her BFs she had, now she got married. I asked her if she was usre that this guy was the only one for her she told yes, but now, after 2 monthes being married she started to talk about divorcing, like all couple do it and she also started to talk about another guy she likes, and I am sure her poor husband will be chated. But thought she is a very good girl herself, it is juts unreliable and she doesnt understand the reason herself, why she is doing that...well, thats sad...very...
p.s. My BF says that I must tell evrth to her husband, to open his eyes, coz he is a good guy, but how can I do it, she is my friend, right?

Reply 42

Little Girl Red

thats like the situation i was in.
i say, talk to her about it first and just try to reason with her, make her see that what she is doing is wrong.
if she actually cheats on him, then is the time to take him aside and tell him that he needs to talk to her. maybe not actually tell him what is happening though, just that he needs to talk to her and that you'll be there for him if he needs a friend.