Relationships at school.

Hey, just a quick question. I've been going out with my boyfriend for around 10 months, for about 8 of those months we went to different schools and everything was great. However we started at the same sixth form and things haven't been as great, just wondering if anyone has experienced similar things? thanks.

Reply 1

Harv616

9

abbie_rw

Hey, just a quick question. I've been going out with my boyfriend for around 10 months, for about 8 of those months we went to different schools and everything was great. However we started at the same sixth form and things haven't been as great, just wondering if anyone has experienced similar things? thanks.

Maybe your just getting sick of seeing him everyday?

Reply 2

RoCkPoRt

over-familiarity can be a problem for certain relationships. one or the other feels they need more space, so talk about it. back off if it is you, or request similiar action from him, if its his problem. if your sick of your b/f tho.. why are you going out with him? i could never get sick of my g/f and i saw her practically every day for 2 years...

Reply 3

happydinosaur

15

Probably things aren't as good now because you are used to having your own seperate world at school where you have seperate lives but now you have been thrown together things are becomming uncomfortable. Do you feel that he is invading a part of your life which until now you enjoyed keeping him seperate from. I always liked the fact that my ex boyfriend was at a different school and therefore not in my lessons or spending time with me whilst I am with my friends. Maybe you should sit down and talk and suggest ways of keeping a distance whilst at school and then spending quality time together after school where you can then catch up on your day and tell him about it etc. So maybe for example agreeing to not spend every lunch break together and not hanging out in free lessons. Use that time to see your friends and then see your boyfriend after school. It isn't difficult to be seperate at school and do your own thing.

Reply 4

thefish_uk

14

abbie_rw

Hey, just a quick question. I've been going out with my boyfriend for around 10 months, for about 8 of those months we went to different schools and everything was great. However we started at the same sixth form and things haven't been as great, just wondering if anyone has experienced similar things? thanks.

Hmmm... I'm no expert with these things, but I bet that because he knows you best out of everyone, he started spending time with you at break and lunchtimes rather than making his own friends to do stuff with? Maybe that would stop you from being able to be with your friends, which annoys you?

Just a guess.

Reply 5

hippieglitter

19

I wish i saw my boyfriend everyday, i used to when we were first together but it gradually got less and less until it was onlylike 2 or 3 times a week and now its not even that cos i'm at uni and he is back home.

Reply 6

clomoo

2

I found it was too much, seeing him everyday, plus he didn't like to show affection at school/in public so it was very difficult. Eventually I wanted more time apart, but that's because I am a more private person. It works for some people sure. But we all need our own space.

Reply 7

pink_lucie

14

me and my bf are in every single class together! :eek:

but we dont sit next to each other all the time and hang out together 24/7 cos thats just to much! and you are prob getting sick of seeing each other all the time.

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