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Bum pinching/slapping

In say a club situation, why do some females object to the aforementioned bum slap/pinch? I personally go for the slap technique and more often than not they look round and dont react, but I've seen others do it to more disastrous effect, i.e. aggressive action from the female.

Surely females like male attention? Particularly in an area of such female concern, if we pinch or slap ur bum we are reassuring you that you have a nice pair of cheeks. I know I wouldn't complain if females slapped my bum, males on the otherhand yes I would object to.

Any thoughts anyone?

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Andrew_S
In say a club situation, why do some females object to the aforementioned bum slap/pinch? I personally go for the slap technique and more often than not they look round and dont react, but I've seen others do it to more disastrous effect, i.e. aggressive action from the female.

Surely females like male attention? Particularly in an area of such female concern, if we pinch or slap ur bum we are reassuring you that you have a nice pair of cheeks. I know I wouldn't complain if females slapped my bum, males on the otherhand yes I would object to.

Any thoughts anyone?



no idea, i wouldnt complain...unless he was minging and i was sober.

love Katy ***
Reply 2
ickle_katy
no idea, i wouldnt complain...unless he was minging and i was sober.

love Katy ***

How would you define a "minging" guy dear Katy?
Andrew_S
In say a club situation, why do some females object to the aforementioned bum slap/pinch? I personally go for the slap technique and more often than not they look round and dont react, but I've seen others do it to more disastrous effect, i.e. aggressive action from the female.

Surely females like male attention? Particularly in an area of such female concern, if we pinch or slap ur bum we are reassuring you that you have a nice pair of cheeks. I know I wouldn't complain if females slapped my bum, males on the otherhand yes I would object to.

Any thoughts anyone?




I'm going to have to assume you're joking otherwise I might kill myself in despair.
Reply 4
ickle_katy
no idea, i wouldnt complain...unless he was minging and i was sober.

love Katy ***


Is that an 'and' or an 'and/or'...
Reply 5
hitchhiker_13
I'm going to have to assume you're joking otherwise I might kill myself in despair.

joking about what?
Andrew_S
joking about what?



Ah, the whole thing
Andrew_S
joking about what?

I'm assuming this person believes a quick tap on a purt arse is indecent and derrogatory to women.

Fool.

Tap that ass!
Percy
How would you define a "minging" guy dear Katy?



bless, the guy from last night...you know you've pulled a freak when everyone is still laughing at you 24 hours later.


love Katy ***
Reply 9
hitchhiker_13
Ah, the whole thing

I wanted opinions on this great modern mating ritual.
ZJuwelH
Is that an 'and' or an 'and/or'...


it was an and...

i seem to suffer really badly from beer gogles....

love Katy ***
ickle_katy
bless, the guy from last night...you know you've pulled a freak when everyone is still laughing at you 24 hours later.


love Katy ***

lol!
Andrew_S
I wanted opinions on this great modern mating ritual.



Ok. Here's mine:
It isn't one
Reply 13
hitchhiker_13
Ok. Here's mine:
It isn't one

Bum pinching/slapping is heavily present in any club/bar situation. It clearly divides opinion, i.e. some people don't mind, some may even like it, others however get aggressive. I just don't see what the big deal is and why people would care if their bum was pinched/slapped. It's hardly as if it's full gropage, it's just a sign of affection and "hey you look good".
Andrew_S
Bum pinching/slapping is heavily present in any club/bar situation. It clearly divides opinion, i.e. some people don't mind, some may even like it, others however get aggressive. I just don't see what the big deal is and why people would care if their bum was pinched/slapped. It's hardly as if it's full gropage, it's just a sign of affection and "hey you look good".



not very much of it goes on down south...except the guy collecting glasses did on thursday..as did one of the rugbi guys...ok mayb i've just got used to it...

love Katy ***
Andrew_S
Bum pinching/slapping is heavily present in any club/bar situation. It clearly divides opinion, i.e. some people don't mind, some may even like it, others however get aggressive. I just don't see what the big deal is and why people would care if their bum was pinched/slapped. It's hardly as if it's full gropage, it's just a sign of affection and "hey you look good".

Agreed, there's a certain science to picking targets though... look for the britney wannabe attention seekers. You can grope these targets with ease and expect a smile back for your troubles.

Never poke though, either a firm tap, or a palm grope.

Good luck!
ickle_katy
not very much of it goes on down south...except the guy collecting glasses did on thursday..as did one of the rugbi guys...ok mayb i've just got used to it...

love Katy ***

I'm glad you enjoy it Katy, it confirms that girls don't have one iota of self-respect when they're drunk... ideal for sleeping plans.
Andrew_S
Bum pinching/slapping is heavily present in any club/bar situation. It clearly divides opinion, i.e. some people don't mind, some may even like it, others however get aggressive. I just don't see what the big deal is and why people would care if their bum was pinched/slapped. It's hardly as if it's full gropage, it's just a sign of affection and "hey you look good".



Let me explain my comment:
"It isn't one"

1. It's not great
2. It's not modern, people have been doing it for centuries at least
3. It's not really a mating ritual. I mean it's not a great story to tell your children is it.
"Mammy, how did you and daddy meet?"
"Well I'd never met him before and one night he just pinched my ass, completely uninvited."
Reply 18
hitchhiker_13
Let me explain my comment:
"It isn't one"

1. It's not great
2. It's not modern, people have been doing it for centuries at least
3. It's not really a mating ritual. I mean it's not a great story to tell your children is it.
"Mammy, how did you and daddy meet?"
"Well I'd never met him before and one night he just pinched my ass, completely uninvited."

Personally I wouldn't entertain my kids with mating ritual stories, maybe if I was one of those dads who buy their sons porn I would.
"Son, I want to tell you how your mother and I got together. It was at one of those swingers parties in the early 70's your mother was on the floor being..."
Oh and it is a mating ritual, just a very crude one
Andrew_S
Personally I wouldn't entertain my kids with mating ritual stories, maybe if I was one of those dads who buy their sons porn I would.
"Son, I want to tell you how your mother and I got together. It was at one of those swingers parties in the early 70's your mother was on the floor being..."
Oh and it is a mating ritual, just a very crude one



You might see it as a mating ritual, and possibly a lot of men and a good few women do, but none of the women I know think of it as anything other than an annoyance at best, and a completely unwelcome intrusion.