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Embarrassing dreams
Does anyone else here have dreams which they find really embarrassing? I've been having a lot recently. Almost always they are about having sex with women I would never think of doing that stuff to. One was bordering on incest, which I'd rather not go into detail about. Last night was really bad though. The woman was Davina McCall, a married woman almost two decades older than me with young kids, who is never off the telly. Everytime I see her now I will think of last night. I admit that I had noticed her before, but thought no more of it seeing as how inappropriate it would be. To make matters worse, I think my bro heard me moaning her name when I was asleep.
Does anyone else have freaky dreams like this? Do they mean anything, like am I a weirdo or something? And how am I ever gonna watch Big brother with my family ever again????
Does anyone else have freaky dreams like this? Do they mean anything, like am I a weirdo or something? And how am I ever gonna watch Big brother with my family ever again????
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Is this a joke?
Nicola1986
Is this a joke?
No! They are freaking me out. I'm having them all the time.
Poica
Don't know old you are...it's called a 'wet dream' - lads have them during puberty.
I don't usually ejaculate during them though. Just wake up with wood, if you know what i mean.
i always do...i have dreams about having sex with people who i find repulsive in real life, or explicit lesbian dreams when i'm completely straight and can't stand the idea of doing anything with a girl....i even once dreamt i seduced captain hook! haha. that one was kinda funny though.
i think it's pretty safe to say it's just your imagination running wild, unchecked, and not actually a reflection of anything you want! don't worry, it's just dreams.
i think it's pretty safe to say it's just your imagination running wild, unchecked, and not actually a reflection of anything you want! don't worry, it's just dreams.
grace
i always do...i have dreams about having sex with people who i find repulsive in real life, or explicit lesbian dreams when i'm completely straight and can't stand the idea of doing anything with a girl....i even once dreamt i seduced captain hook! haha. that one was kinda funny though.
i think it's pretty safe to say it's just your imagination running wild, unchecked, and not actually a reflection of anything you want! don't worry, it's just dreams.
i think it's pretty safe to say it's just your imagination running wild, unchecked, and not actually a reflection of anything you want! don't worry, it's just dreams.
Thing is when I have these dreams, I feel like I really want the person in question, then when I wake up properly i feel really embarrassed.
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Poica
I thought that was common with men anyway?
Not over relatives, old maths teachers or davina mccall.
Poica
I mean 'morning wood'.
It's normal, you're not a pervert or a weirdo. Don't stress about it too much or it'll probably get worse.
It's normal, you're not a pervert or a weirdo. Don't stress about it too much or it'll probably get worse.
Well my bro has been taking the pi** all day about it.
Poica
Brothers do that. It's not a problem, really.
I mean, your brother would probably find something else if not that
I mean, your brother would probably find something else if not that
Nothing as utterly embarrassing as moaning the name of a well known presenter in my sleep.
recneps
Ok - that is a bit weird. All guys have dreams about girls, but that is going a bit far!
Even more worrying was it was pretty fun. Ewwww, in retrospect though.
it happens mate, don't worry about it. Last week one of my mates told me that he had a "sexual" dream about this girl who we went to school with, and believe me she is proper UUUGLY!!! As in hideous, you can't even imagine. THEN he tells me that it was a proper wet one! And he's nearly 20! He was like "I woke up and was like 'oh my god, whyyy??' then noticed the wet patch". I was in hysterics.Seriously though, you should stop having wet dreams at about 14 but everyone still has the dreams. Some of them can be proper dodgy... like gay or incestuous. It doesn't mean that you ARE gay at all, or that you actually want to do your cousin. Dreams (of any kind) are just a bit messed up in general, I personally don't try to give them any sort of meaning. Shrug it off and forget about it.
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I wouldn't go chasing it, but if I walked into my room and she was just there on the bed... well, why the hell not?
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tsforesth05
No! They are freaking me out. I'm having them all the time.
Hate to admit it, but I am as well
(thats as much as you're getting!)Had another one last night. 
The way I see it, it's not a huge problem.
If the person in the dream makes the whole thing a bit weird then take solace in the fact that that's all it is: a dream.
If the dreams are enjoyable then there's no problem! As for the Davina thing, I don't think her being married with kids makes it inappropriate to have dreams about her.... attempting to realise those dreams may be inappropriate.... at least from the point of view of her husband....
If the person in the dream makes the whole thing a bit weird then take solace in the fact that that's all it is: a dream.
If the dreams are enjoyable then there's no problem! As for the Davina thing, I don't think her being married with kids makes it inappropriate to have dreams about her.... attempting to realise those dreams may be inappropriate.... at least from the point of view of her husband....
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