I mean.... why?
One of my friends has been with his girlfriend for 3 or 4 years now. He's cheated on her countless times and she doesn't know about it, and probably never will.
He genuinely loves her and he's just left everything in his life behind to move with her to the other end of the country and be with her.
He knows cheating is wrong, and doesn't like that he does it. He tells himself he'd stop if it ever got as far as marriage.
He doesn't do it as much as he used to, but still meets/flirts with new girls and things can happen.
It used to happen more when he drank a lot, and he admits it was partly to impress his mates if he could pick up an attractive girl. But it can still happen now when he has the odd drink. He's never cheated while sober as far as I know.
This just troubles me.
I can't get my head around it. He's a genuinely nice and sentimental guy, and a caring boyfriend. So why? I mean, what is the point? It doesn't achieve anything!
Totally perplexed.