I made a thread the other day about this clingy guy.
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?p=28664603&highlight=flirtingAfter I wrote this I started to think about his behavior and things he says and I just noticed that when we are alone he is different to when we are in a group.
He seems controlling and possessive when he's around me especially lately
But other people think because on the outside he comes across as this lovable friendly person who everyone likes and won't kill a fly, but when we are alone he's very suffocating and demanding.
So people won't believe me if I say anything negative about him because I come across moody, when really I'm just very shy and I think he is taking advantage of my shyness to get what he wants.
Why I think he's controlling/possessive because he's started saying and doing things which reminded me of my dad and he was very physically and mentally abusive to my mum, and they look like warning signs and we are not even a couple.
I wanted to know what you think when someone says or does things like this.
-Taking pictures of you secretly without your permission
-Gets pissed off and questions why you didn't reply to a message straight away. (I'm not dead I'm going to reply)
-Looking over your shoulder when you are on your phone wanting to know who you're talking to
-Always giving an intense evil look if you mention another guy around him.
-Always wants to follow me everywhere I go.
-Always wanting to interrupt a conversation I have with someone else especially a guy like a cockblocker.
-Always wanting to know where you are going whether library, cafe, home
-When you disagree with him he forces his opinion on you, making you feel like you are wrong and he is right and says "replying back like that is what gets you hurt"
-Always asking personal and private questions which has nothing to do with him
-When I told him I didn't like him that way he started hitting my shoulder and kicking my leg.
-Eavesdropping in to your conversations with someone else.
-Always has to be in viewing distance to keep an eye on me in a stalkerish way.
-Always wanting to know what you eat, when you eat, why you are not eating.
-Always sitting behind or next to you practically invading your personal space in an intimidating way. (I can feel he's eyes burning through me.)
He knows I only see him as a friend/brother but he's pissing me off now that I don't even want to talk to him.
It's getting to the point where I don't even want to be at uni any more and I want to drop out.
What do you think I should do? Help!!!!!!
By the way I'm 19 and he's 21