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    Hello there!

    Your advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated!...

    I'm a 19 year old guy and I really want to ask out this 18 year old girl. I added her on facebook a few weeks ago, we recognised each other from school (but never actually spoke to each other as she's two years below me). We've been chatting online a bit and I think we would get on well...I really like her.

    The only thing that's stopping from asking her out is that she's now a 45 minute drive from where I live. Is this distance too far to start a relationship with someone?

    I can drive and so if we were to start 'going out', we would probably only be able to see each other at weekends. She can't drive, and the train between our towns takes over an hour! So I'm woried that we just wouldn't be able to see enough of each other to start dating.

    I'm going bowling with her and some of her friends next week and was thinking of talking to her on her own and asking 'if she would let me take her to lunch sometime' (I believe you should only ask someone out face-to-face). But should I even take this first step of asking her out?

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    45 minutes drive isnt to far away there people that have relationship and they live in different countries
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    that's a perfectly acceptable distance, go for it
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    Hey

    45 mins is ok...
    If you both want it too work out it will...always the way with LDR's
    So what you got to ask yourself is, is she worth the drive? From the way your talking, i'd say you think she is. To me as an unbiased 3rd party, the answer is obvious...just go for it already

    good luck and have fun
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    It obviously depends how much you like this girl. If you really like her, then the distance shouldn't be a problem at all.
 
 
 
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