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    Ive been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now, and whilst I love her, and enjoy being with her at the moment, I cant imagine a long term relationship and a future with her. I dont want to break up with her, because I do like being with her, I just dont know if it's unfair on her when I dont see marriage and all that. I know she thinks about this sort of stuff, and it doesnt scare me, but makes me feel guilty.

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    If she is seeing you as a possible long-term partner, then yes - she deserves to know that she'd be wasting her time.

    If you're both just enjoying it in the moment, of course not.
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    (Original post by TheSownRose)
    If she is seeing you as a possible long-term partner, then yes - she deserves to know that she'd be wasting her time.

    If you're both just enjoying it in the moment, of course not.
    You know...I got most way through typing an answer when I realised i'd basically written a long winded version of this. So I thought..may as well just quote this.... just to say....what she said Depends on the nature of the relationship.
 
 
 
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