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    Life plans never work out. Just let it all fall into place.
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    Ever thought about getting yourself a good career? Or are you going to live off your man for your entire life?
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    Sounds good but now, because you planned it, it's not going to happen.

    You know it, life is a beach like that...
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    (Original post by *mMmMm*)
    I plan to start a serious relationship by the time I hit 21. The guy has took at least look ok, be quite smart, study and work at the same time maintain both well. Has to drink and party, be sociable and bubbly yet very smart and funny. He has to be nice and caring, sweet; prefer a cute, cool nerd.

    At 30 I plan to start thinking of marriage.

    That leave me starting to look for serious relationship as soon as I hit 21. I stop looking at 24 once I met the best person and everything works out.

    At 27 I am still with the same person since age 24, it all goes well. I realise it is a serious relationship and think of marrying him, take 3 years getting to know him more and planning the wedding for when I hit 30.

    Am still working on it but it doesn't leave me much time for the 21 goal. I plan to start thinking of marriage at 30 but it depends how ready I am, would be surprising if it is before. Also that serious relationship thing would be a pretty huge thing to deal with.

    Good luck
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    ...say wut?

    If you seriously think that your life will pan out like that without any altercations whatsoever then you are in for some severe disappointment at some point along the road, I can guarantee you that much.
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    Hang on, so between the ages of 21 and 24 you will be simultaneously in a serious relationship with the person you will marry, but also dating?
    Life doesn't work like this, and if you are so fixated on this plan you have, you will probably end up settling for someone mediocre just to have met someone by age 21. You have no idea what life is going to do and who you are going to meet and when, and that is actually exciting.
    Stop feeling the pressure to settle down, ok? You are your own person and need to live your own life.
    Stop living your life in such a restricted way for someone you haven't even met yet.
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    right,so for the next 10 or so years all your gonna do is work on your marriage... not the rest of your life, but your marriage. i bet your a religious virgin
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    Not planning on working then?
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    Just give me a ring - me and my boyfriend will have a threesome with you; that'll make you 'normal'.

    Side-effects = extreme kinkiness, extreme horniness, extreme dirtyyy girl...so nothing bad.

    Rewards = amazing sex for life.
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    (Original post by 'James Hunt')
    Life plans never work out. Just let it all fall into place.
    That's giving up without even trying. Never say never.

    Half the fun is planning the plan...
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    My life plan is to take each day as it comes. Life is way too spontaneous and unpredictable to have it planned out like that. The people you are yet to meet will have a major influence on how your future is formed, you could meet the guy of your dreams tomorrow and your life plan will be changed completely. Just don't wish your life away, enjoy being young. Live for the moment, as they say

    Edit: And don't get me wrong, I'm not saying NOYOUCANTPLANYOURLIFEOUTLOL, we all have plans and ideas for the future, what I'm trying to say is don't let it take total control over your future decisions and aspirations, let it guide you so to speak.
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    ...So by 'life plan' you actually meant "daydream about my ideal relationship"?
    Life plans tend to involve what you want to do with your life, where you want to live, what you want to achieve, that kind of thing. Not wishful thinking about your perfect guy.
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    If you think it sounds good, then it probably is. However, you can't really plan your life like you can plan a holiday, things happen that affect plans and can change your views.


    Anyway, good luck with it =)
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    (Original post by *mMmMm*)
    I plan to start a serious relationship by the time I hit 21. The guy has took at least look ok, be quite smart, study and work at the same time maintain both well. Has to drink and party, be sociable and bubbly yet very smart and funny. He has to be nice and caring, sweet; prefer a cute, cool nerd.

    At 30 I plan to start thinking of marriage.

    That leave me starting to look for serious relationship as soon as I hit 21. I stop looking at 24 once I met the best person and everything works out.

    At 27 I am still with the same person since age 24, it all goes well. I realise it is a serious relationship and think of marrying him, take 3 years getting to know him more and planning the wedding for when I hit 30.

    Am still working on it but it doesn't leave me much time for the 21 goal. I plan to start thinking of marriage at 30 but it depends how ready I am, would be surprising if it is before. Also that serious relationship thing would be a pretty huge thing to deal with.
    To attract a guy like that you have to be preety are you pretty?
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    Sounds pretty rigid... Plus, I never fall for the type of guy that I think I will, so setting out specifics isn't too likely to work.
    But yeah in general, time scales etc. married at 30 is fine
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    That's not a life plan, what about work/achievements/goals.
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    I'm your boyfriend, I think. Scary stuff!
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