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Planning to see an escort. Male, 19, virgin. Watch

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    I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

    Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

    Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.
    Well I am not sure what you want us to say to you.

    Personally, I think you should just sick it out, your only 19, its not that big a deal.

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    go for it... totally understand your logic.. and you might just feel a whole lot more relaxed and stuff about girls when you're not a virgin... go for it... enjoy
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    Was there a question there?
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    Mum: Ooooh my boy's all grown up, making manly decisions! Have fun Jacob!
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    Your only 19 though. You will regret it when you find the right girl, so personally I think you should wait a few more years.
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    Nobody cares when you lose your virginity, it means nothing tbh. Dont feel you HAVE to do it, but by all means if you WANT to do it then go for it and be safe. But doing it solely because you want to lose your virginity for the sake of losing your virginity is pretty pathetic that you feel the need to do so.
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    Haha this guy at my school done this and he ended up with thrush on his mouth because he licked her out haha. Poor lad, couldn't help but lauf though.
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    Try to take your mind off sex, there are other distractions, perhaps read a book, socialise with male friends. When you start liking a girl, this incl. personality, then I think marriage is good, try this.

    It's tough, lad, but you have to remain good. It's embarrasing to go to an escort.
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    (Original post by Jack_1919)
    go for it... totally understand your logic.. and you might just feel a whole lot more relaxed and stuff about girls when you're not a virgin...
    This!.....
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    or you might just feel even more shyt
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    Just make sure she hasn't been baked more times than bread because you will get infected faster than the moulds multiply and your oven glove will be affected for life, fall off, burnt in the toaster and served with beans.
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    (Original post by mehhh.....hi.)
    Your only 19 though. You will regret it when you find the right girl, so personally I think you should wait a few more years.

    (Original post by Jack_1919)
    go for it... totally understand your logic.. and you might just feel a whole lot more relaxed and stuff about girls when you're not a virgin... go for it... enjoy
    The difference in the type of response up there ^^ shows the ultimate difference between how the male and the female brains work.

    OP: do whatever the **** you want. Don't seek TSR's approval...
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    go for it if she takes 13 second bookings
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    (Original post by mehhh.....hi.)
    Your only 19 though. You will regret it when you find the right girl, so personally I think you should wait a few more years.

    Brah won't regret. Hombre needs to get laid.


    It would be cheaper to go to a club and buy a few drinks for the ugly girl no one touches.

    Fat girls put out more, but due to their size they require more alcohol to lose control of their inhibitions.

    If you want a guarenteed lay get some rohypnol.
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    (Original post by Rhiani-ani-on)
    Well I am not sure what you want us to say to you.

    Personally, I think you should just sick it out, your only 19, its not that big a deal.

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    just go for it, as long as you're sure you can't wait any longer, I understand how you feel, I felt the same frustration, when I finally did sleep with a girl (just some girl at a party) the sex was pretty crap, but the feeling of losing it is liberating, contrary to all these annoying people who say it needs to be special, we have needs, and your first time will always be below par no matter what..
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I just can't wait anymore for sex. I'm sure i can get it but i just don't how to , tbh i've accepted after being in love with a girl for 2 years that i'm just going to suck it up and dispell the question in my mind of what sex is like. I'm sick of stuttering all the time in front of girls and looking physically nervous, and also i'm sick of feeling **** everytime i feel that i'm ****ing up. I'm not the best looking guy in the world, i got rejected by the girl i was in love with because of that. I don't want to play this whole dating game thing, i just want to feel free and not have to worry about that ****.

    Problem is, i'm afraid, i don't know how the hell this experience is going to turn out. I'm not doing it for the feelings, i just want to have this shadow over me regarding my virginity removed.
    Something about losing your virginity to a whore...just screams failure. Don't do it, have some patience.
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    Well to be honest, if it bothers you this much, I doubt what anyone says here is going to make a difference. Though I hear prostitutes are becoming trendy now according to the conversations I hear from the guys at school I have my opinions which I keep to myself because you won't appreciate them. It's up to you.
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    Do it if you want. Why are you telling TSR?
 
 
 
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