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He was a bit rude. Though maybe he likes you too and can't doesn't want you meeting someone else while he's gone. You just have totalk to him again.

Reply 2

bikerx23

1

its easy - tell him how you feel and you can talk it through and see what happens.
if he likes you too, you can get it on and try and work through it - and , given my experience, it probably wont work and you'll be annoyed for a while, but get over it and find someone else.
if it does work...then what can be wrong there!

Reply 3

Chester

OP

He was a bit rude.

How'd you mean?
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its easy - tell him how you feel and you can talk it through and see what happens.
if he likes you too, you can get it on and try and work through it - and , given my experience, it probably wont work and you'll be annoyed for a while, but get over it and find someone else.
if it does work...then what can be wrong there!

You make it sound so easy!! The other problems are... he is 5 years older than me at 22/23, and before that day at work I didnt really know him, so we aren't that close as friends, so talking to him is hard... And I don't want to push him away which is why talking to him honestly is hard

Reply 4

lirael

7

Well making a plan to meet her then dropping out of it. Not talking for about 2 years only to make contact again

Reply 5

Chester

OP

Nooo, 2 months! Not years!

Reply 6

Max Power

actually i don't think the guy was being rude.

in my humble opinion i think the man didn't want to take advantage. He doesn't want a long distant relationship and all that hassle. He refused to start something which had no future. He had respect for you.

I think that you should have respect for him. Don't hassle him and go out of ur way to see him. If u see him, say hello and be a friend. But that is all it will ever be for the moment.

It's difficult. i would even go as far as deleting his number from ur fone so u aint tempted to txt him. just take it day by day, then week by week and then one day u'll just forget all about him.

Reply 7

Chester

OP

in my humble opinion i think the man didn't want to take advantage. He doesn't want a long distant relationship and all that hassle. He refused to start something which had no future. He had respect for you.

I actually completely agree with you. Thankyou.

Thanks for the rest of your comments too. I shall think long and hard about it

Reply 8

stvey3000

im in exactly in this same position, but the other way round, this girl i know who i used to work with before i went to uni, shes still got another year before uni. Got her mobile but have accidently deleted it, so in lombo, i ve not exactly made my feelings toward her 100% clear as in fear of messing up our friendship.i could get some one to give me a txt just to let her know i want to contact her, or does that make me look a bit desparete?

Reply 9

Purple

18

You make it sound so easy!! The other problems are... he is 5 years older than me at 22/23, and before that day at work I didnt really know him, so we aren't that close as friends, so talking to him is hard... And I don't want to push him away which is why talking to him honestly is hard

I dont see what the problem with the age is?

Reply 10

Purple

18

Chester

You make it sound so easy!! The other problems are... he is 5 years older than me at 22/23, and before that day at work I didnt really know him, so we aren't that close as friends, so talking to him is hard... And I don't want to push him away which is why talking to him honestly is hard

I dont see what the problem with the age is?

Reply 11

Chester

OP

I dont see what the problem with the age is?

Maybe there isn't one... Maybe it's just all in my head... I dunno, I just feel that he is much more mature than I am... but maybe that's just me too

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