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    I had sex for the first time yesterday night. I'm 19. It was with a guy i met in a club and he came back to mine and we ended up having sex. He wore a condom and it stayed on and didn't break or anything. he had trouble keeping himself in me and it kept slipping out so i don't think he got it all in (does this mean we didn't have sex properly?). He then stopped, i'm guessing he ejaculated but i don't know for sure...then he started fingering me cos he wanted to make me come, this is when it realllyyyy hurt and he ended up with blood allll over his hands (oops) we then stopped.

    I'm just sooooo worried that im pregnant, im not on the pill or anything and i feel sick with worry. I'm a first year uni student and this could mess up my whole life.
    it was a BIG mistake i totally regret.

    Would it be worth getting the morning after pill first thing tomorrow morning?! i had sex saturday at around 2am.

    What are the chances that i am pregnant when its my first time?

    Please help.
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    I'd say it would be fairly unlikely that you are pregnant, but if you're worried then I don't see why you shouldn't get the MAP, if only to put your mind at ease. Not that it matters now, but you can get pregnant the first time, whoever tells you otherwise doesn't know what they're talking about.

    You should be fine though! Remember the MAP is more effective the sooner after sex you take it. When I took it, it was about 12 hours later and all was well in the end
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    I doubt you are pregnant if he wore a condom throughout and it didn't break?
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    Why do you think you're pregnant? :lolwut:

    Those pills have some strong hormones in them, they shouldn't be taken for no reason.
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    (Original post by Blueflare)
    Why do you think you're pregnant? :lolwut:

    Those pills have some strong hormones in them, they shouldn't be taken for no reason.
    I see your point...i guess im just worried because im not on the pill or anything and it was my first time so im not familiar with what to expect or how easy it would be to get pregnant. I've decided to leave it and not take it because it probably wouldn't be effective now anyway..i generally don't feel as worried as i was yesterday..haha.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I see your point...i guess im just worried because im not on the pill or anything and it was my first time so im not familiar with what to expect or how easy it would be to get pregnant. I've decided to leave it and not take it because it probably wouldn't be effective now anyway..i generally don't feel as worried as i was yesterday..haha.
    I think there are some which can be effective up to 2-3 days after you last had sex -- at least I remember that, if you really want to do some research for your own sanity

    Otherwise if it's still bugging you in 3 weeks time you can take a pregnancy test to know 100%.
 
 
 
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