I am a 22 year old female. In the past, in my early teens I never had trouble bringing myself to orgasm.
However the last few years since becoming more sexually active, and introducing sex toys I find it increasingly hard to orgasm
I now either rely on my vibrator, warming lube, porn or a combo of these. Orgasming still takes a long time with these methods. I can orgasm through intercourse but again this is difficult and takes a long time.
I'm just so anxious this will become worse and worse and eventually I will be completely incapable of orgasming. I already give up with trying to come through masturbating a lot nowadays because it is so much effort....
Any ideas on how I go back to easily orgasming?
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- Thread Starter
- 29-11-2010 02:12
- 29-11-2010 02:42
Get a grip dear. Don't make orgasms the be all and end all.
- 29-11-2010 18:57
Maybe you've been getting so much that you're becoming insensitive? Like, you get used to caffeine and end up needing more and more to feel the effect. Try doing things less often? I know if as a male I'm at it... more often than usual... it gets more of a mission to orgasm
- 29-11-2010 18:59
I've never been able to achieve an orgasm, so count yourself lucky.
I'd just like to experience it even once, just to know what its like.
- 29-11-2010 19:21
Take a break from using your vibrator and looking at porn, masturbate less.