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    I know the title of the thread sounds bad, but I promise I'm not just being a *****...

    Basically, I've just started to go out with this guy. We've been on quite a few dates and on the last one I (reluctantly) agreed I would be his girlfriend which was clearly a huge mistake. Yeah, I quite like spending time with him and he is a laugh, but he's not right for me and it seems it's too late that it's kicked in.

    He drinks all the time - I get drunk calls from him almost every night, drunk texts about how he's going to 'annihilate me' and stuff like that. Whenever we go out, I just want to go for a meal and get to know him, but he always wants to go out and get smashed.

    He hasn't got a job - he's been out of uni for about 2 years now and is still temping (if he even is, I'm pretty sure he's just mooching off his parents). He gambles a lot. I even asked him not to go to the casino last time we went out and he promised he wouldn't. He was then 30mins late to meet me and I waited outside the casino and lo and behold, he came out of there and claimed he was 'just using the toilet in there'.

    I thought I'd try and get past this and told myself off for being so shallow, but you know, I don't want to see this guy anymore. He's asked me out for a few drinks (woopee) this Tuesday, but I really don't want to go. What shall I do?
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    Tell him the truth. The way you've described him he sounds terrible tbh.
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    Just tell him you don't want to see him any more.
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    Waste of a phallic appendage. Dump him I say. You must be pretty shallow though to have agreed to go out with him in the first place :s
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    Step 1 : Get a plane.
    Step 2 : Get a banner.
    Step 3 : Paint on the banner, in large letters - YOU'RE DUMPED YOU WASTER - or something along those lines...
    Step 4 : Invite him out on a nice hilltop picnic (tell him there will be plentiful amounts of alcohol)
    Step 5 : Get someone to fly the plane with the attached banner right in front of him.
    Step 6 : Slap him in the face and kick him in the groin.

    You sound like you deserve much better!
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    Next time he asks you out you just say you won't come. Ever.
    Then add "I don't think this is working out", and say you lead different lifestyles. Meaning you take your life seriously, whereas he clearly doesn't.
 
 
 
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