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    First of all never thought i'd be posting in the 'Health & Relationships' section lol.

    But anyways here's my situation (short & simple)

    Just got into a relationship on halloween night lol. (Been talking to her since end of August everyday at night)

    Her ex start ringing her last week and it got to her as they went out for 2 years. Then she randomly text me "How do u feel about me" so I rang and spoke to her, asked her whats this about and she said "I shouldn't have said yes to you yet, don't really know you properly and it doesn't feel serious or lovey dovey, she says we've rushed into this relationship, we are still in the friend zone" etc.

    I told her I'm willing to give her the space and time until shes ready.

    Then she rang me up again 2 hours later and said "Don't worry ignore what I said we are cool, I was like sorry wahh...i'm confused...explain?" She said ignore all the things we talked about earlier then that is when she mentioned her ex to me.

    So we agreed to continue as normal, she gave me her facebook password and I deleted her ex of her account and changed the password which was his name :mad:

    I'm getting to the point were I think i'm wasting my time.

    This is a long distance relationship (she lives 3 hours away from me). We talk every night and text during the day.

    Can someone tell me what i'm doing? Am I right the way i'm handling this relationship....should I slow things down....what does she mean friend zone?

    I hope someone has time to read my essay LOL.
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    your wasting your time mate
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    Sorry to say man, but it does seem as if she is still a little hung up on him =/
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    long distance is hard to pull off

    and it sounds like this girl doesn't know what she wants right now. Your probably best just going your separate ways.
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    Well thanks for going and putting Avril Lavigne in my head, geeeeze.
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    sounds like shes still hung up on her ex and doesnt know what she wants talk to her about it! the choice is yours but good luck!
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    >never thought i'd be posting in health and relationships
    >got into a relatiuonship

    well i think i see the problem and like all cancerous growths the simp,e treatgment is to cut it out.
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    your wasting your time mate
    It feels that way too , She's perfect in everyway, decent, loyal and honest. That issue is the only problem. Thanks mate

    long distance is hard to pull off

    and it sounds like this girl doesn't know what she wants right now. Your probably best just going your separate ways.
    Yeah I thought the same shes confused, but why put me through all this pain and drama arghhh.... Thanks mate.

    Sorry to say man, but it does seem as if she is still a little hung up on him =/
    Yeah I know man , quite sad to be honest cause shes wifey material and this little issue is the only problem atm

    Well thanks for going and putting Avril Lavigne in my head, geeeeze.
    Haha that made me lol

    Am I doing anything wrong? Does it seem like i'm rushing the relationship?

    Thanks alot guys
 
 
 
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