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    Yes, title explains the situation: in my twenties, fugly and a virgin.

    Growing up I always assumed it would just happen. Unfortunately I am fugly and threfore no-one has ever tried it on with me.

    Sucks.
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    Loads of my friends are 21+ and still virgins, and they all think they're the only ones. Some aren't even ugly, just shy.
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    well i'm 19.. so i suppose don't really apply... but condsidering keeping that way til i'm at least 21. just want to wait for a certain person (i never thought i'd be this strict with myself) but i'm so scared of being used, or too committed (i know sex will make me overly attached) at this stage of my life. sex would complicate my life. i have a very sexual and kinky boyfriend though, who seems to want to wait for me....
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yes, title explains the situation: in my twenties, fugly and a virgin.

    Growing up I always assumed it would just happen. Unfortunately I am fugly and threfore no-one has ever tried it on with me.

    Sucks.
    visit an escort if you really want to loose it then mate
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    If you have low self-confidence then you'll see yourself as fugly anyway- whether true or not. Let someone else be the judge of that.
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    There is hope for you yet :yes:
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    Yup - 22 and considering escorts.
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    Not to mention that confidence makes you more attractive anyway.
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    I'm a 21 year old virgin.

    In my experience many Westerners are embarrassed if they are virgins over the age of 17 but I think it might just be peer pressure.
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    Lost mine at 21, after years of being shy. Went all out working on confidence, gym, image, building a social circle and bam options were everywhere.
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    Where's shinytoy when you need her??
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    (Original post by rugbyladosc)
    visit an escort if you really want to loose it then mate
    This.
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    (Original post by Dude Where's My Username)
    There is hope for you yet :yes:
    yeah Daily Mail... NICE ONE

    But guess the is an example of aim low score low eh?
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    you could always resign yourself to a life of solitude.
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    I'm 20 and a virgin. I'm not fugly though, and i've had plenty of opportunity to lose it, but i'm just shy-not in most areas of my life, just concerning relationships/boys etc.
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    I like to think so
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    Start worrying when you're 25.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm 20 and a virgin. I'm not fugly though, and i've had plenty of opportunity to lose it, but i'm just shy-not in most areas of my life, just concerning relationships/boys etc.
    Are you embarrassed by your virgin status (hence they anonymity)?
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    (Original post by effofex)
    Are you embarrassed by your virgin status (hence they anonymity)?
    Perhaps their sex life is just none of your bloody business (hence the anonymity)
 
 
 
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