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    I am confused.

    A guy who likes me (I like him too) used to text me every other day and then it went to everyday and all of a sudden he's stopped...


    why? i dont get it.
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    Maybe he's waiting for you to text him first? Maybe his work load picked up? Maybe he's bored?
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    he's busy?

    why don't you text him
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    (Original post by didgeridoo12uk)
    he's busy?

    why don't you text him
    I have texted him first once or twice but don't want to seem to keen. Also, he is a bit busy with work and I dont want to distract him...

    I also wonder if he's gotten bored of me since he randomly stopped texting me out of the blue when he used to do it daily :confused:
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    (Original post by The TSR Star.)
    I have texted him first once or twice but don't want to seem to keen. Also, he is a bit busy with work and I dont want to distract him...

    I also wonder if he's gotten bored of me since he randomly stopped texting me out of the blue when he used to do it daily :confused:
    Well you just said it yourself, he's busy with work.
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    He might be interested and trying the 'hot and cold' tatic

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    He's too busy right now to text you

    oooooooooooooor

    He doesn't like you.
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    He could be out of credit, why don't you ring him?
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    He's probably masterburtoning, stop distracting him.
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    (Original post by The TSR Star.)
    I have texted him first once or twice but don't want to seem to keen. Also, he is a bit busy with work and I dont want to distract him...

    I also wonder if he's gotten bored of me since he randomly stopped texting me out of the blue when he used to do it daily :confused:
    It is highly possible he's waiting to see if you'll start texting him first now. And I doubt he minds you distracting him.
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    hmmmmm busy with work?.. IDK usually if a boy likes you enough his texts would be consistent, I'm sure he doesn't work 24/7 if he was keen he would find time to send a text.
    Don't mean to be negative maybe he broke his phone?
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    (Original post by The TSR Star.)
    I am confused.

    A guy who likes me (I like him too) used to text me every other day and then it went to everyday and all of a sudden he's stopped...


    why? i dont get it.
    hmm..tricky. well have u said that u like each otha? maybe he doesnt have much to say and doesnt wana sound random and desperate. like someone said maybe he is waitin for u to text first. do it and ask him why he hasnt textd recently
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    (Original post by Chewmeister)
    Well you just said it yourself, he's busy with work.
    Im sure he doesn't work for 24 hours. There's always time for a text or two, idiot.
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    Either he's run out of credit or he's gotten bored of you.
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    Text him. You can't expect him to do all the work. He probably thinks that since you aren't texting him you've lost interest
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    He spent his pocket money on porn mags instead of credit.
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    (Original post by Rock Fan)
    He could be out of credit, why don't you ring him?
    he's on contract....i don't want to seem like a keeno....

    (Original post by italienmoose)
    It is highly possible he's waiting to see if you'll start texting him first now. And I doubt he minds you distracting him.
    I've texted him once or twice first already. I've also spoken to him a few times on msn, but i never see him around uni because our courses are completely different. If i start texting him a lot (in view of the fact i've already spoken to him first on msn etc) won't i look too keen?
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    (Original post by Lisa=AD)
    hmmmmm busy with work?.. IDK usually if a boy likes you enough his texts would be consistent, I'm sure he doesn't work 24/7 if he was keen he would find time to send a text.
    Don't mean to be negative maybe he broke his phone?
    i know....its like all of a sudden he stopped texting. Surely he couldn't go off me that quickly? :confused:

    (Original post by Keckers)
    Text him. You can't expect him to do all the work. He probably thinks that since you aren't texting him you've lost interest
    i've spoken to him on msn instead....lol
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    Why don't you suggest meeting up, maybe if you take the lead for once.
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    (Original post by Rock Fan)
    Why don't you suggest meeting up, maybe if you take the lead for once.
    I was actually considering that but what if the reason why he's stopped texting me is because he's gone off me? lol.
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    like i said, have u told each otha how u feel yet? tbh, if he has gone off u that quik, mayb he's not worth the hassle. there's plenty more guys around
 
 
 
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