A year ago i had a realtionship where the guy i was with messed me about and cheated on me.
Ive now started a new college and found someone i really like.... we flirt all of the time and he has paid to take me to the cinema and out for a meal. I see him most days at college and we always mess about. He has also been around mine ( i live miles from him so i was impressed haha)
but.. he hasnt mentioned once that he likes me or given me any thing to go on. We have as joke going that when he talks to a girl i get funny with him and the same if i talk to a boy he gets funny with me... but nothing more than that has been said. Its brrn about 3-4months now....
what should i do?
am i reading him wrong... does he like me? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 30-11-2010 21:06
- 30-11-2010 21:21
Well sounds to me like you like each other, so either: drop an obvious hint without it being obvious (eg. I really like spending time with you *rest head on his shoulder - optional*); or, you can ask him out. Either way you really shouldn't be able to go wrong if he does act like he likes you.
You say you flirt, you like spending time together, and you get jealous when you speak to other people. The signs are there that both of you want to make that next step, but so far neither of you have done that. Now he might not have made that step because he is either: a - afraid, or b - unsure if you've hit that "friends" stage. If that's the case, then either drop an obvious hint or ask him.
I could perhaps suggest an alternative that the reason he hasn't made his move is because he's gay, but that might be far wide of the mark.
- 30-11-2010 21:28
Go for it. No doubt it will work out fine!
- 30-11-2010 21:36
Grab him by the balls, He'll understand
- Thread Starter
- 30-11-2010 21:37
aww thankyou thats really helpped! ive been thinking about it so much... i just didnt wana say anything incase i didnt get the answer i wanted to hear i guess.