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Why do some guys take so long to lose their virginity/gain sexual experience? watch

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    i know a small minority might be waiting for the right person. but among guys, this isnt going to really happen. for most guys, they wouldnt turn down the opportunity of getting with a girl.

    so guys who take so long to lose their virginity and gain sexual experience, assuming its not because they're waiting for the right person, why does this happen?
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    Because not everyone has access to sex. Some only want to do it in the form of sex within a stable relationship. Some people just aren't that bothered.

    The list goes on.

    Why do you care? And specifically, why is it an issue for guys only in your opinion? :curious:
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    Because we don't all live on the dole and claim benefits and get girls pregnant to claim council houses.
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    (Original post by Dekota-XS)
    Because we don't all live on the dole and claim benefits and get girls pregnant to claim council houses.
    LOL
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    Lol
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    (Original post by black_mamba)
    Because not everyone has access to sex. Some only want to do it in the form of sex within a stable relationship. Some people just aren't that bothered.

    The list goes on.

    Why do you care? And specifically, why is it an issue for guys only in your opinion? :curious:
    its an issue for guys only because girls place higher expectations on guys and guys are naturally the chasers. unless a girl is very ugly and/or very fat, they will get the opportunities a lot easier, and lowering their standards a bit almost guarantees them.
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    (Original post by Dekota-XS)
    Because we don't all live on the dole and claim benefits and get girls pregnant to claim council houses.
    ever heard of safe sex?
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    (Original post by robotwars)
    ever heard of safe sex?
    Is sexual intercourse a necessity? No. I hope this answers your question to the thread.
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    Some guys lack the confidence to approach a girl, some have all the confidence in the world to approach, but are either ugly as sin, or just really awkward to talk to/not have that likeable a personality, and others just haven't found the liquid courage we call alcohol.
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    (Original post by robotwars)
    its an issue for guys only because girls place higher expectations on guys and guys are naturally the chasers. unless a girl is very ugly and/or very fat, they will get the opportunities a lot easier, and lowering their standards a bit almost guarantees them.
    :facepalm2:
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    A lot of us just aren't that fussed...
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    ...Maybe because they're decent/ waiting for the right person.. :awesome:
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    Because no one will have sex with them?

    Isn't that the obvious answer?
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    (Original post by robotwars)
    i know a small minority might be waiting for the right person. but among guys, this isnt going to really happen. for most guys, they wouldnt turn down the opportunity of getting with a girl.

    so guys who take so long to lose their virginity and gain sexual experience, assuming its not because they're waiting for the right person, why does this happen?
    Various reasons:

    * They don't wanna regret doing it with the wrong person
    * They think it is not safe enough and the thought "Oh know what if I..."
    * Their parents don't let them (certain cultures...)
    * Just don't see the point of it or are just too shy
    * Because they simply don't find someone who would wanna have sex with them
    * Religious reasons
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    Probably cos they're ugly
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    for me it's because anything outside of a relationship would feel like using someone, which I honestly can't do.
    Dates have either turned out to be boring or got nowhere.
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    (Original post by Vazzyb)
    Probably cos they're ugly
    i have to lol at this too! LOL
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    (Original post by Lemons)
    Because no one will have sex with them?

    Isn't that the obvious answer?
    yes thats the obvious answer i already knew, thank you very much. WHY will no one have sex with them?
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    (Original post by robotwars)
    i know a small minority might be waiting for the right person. but among guys, this isnt going to really happen. for most guys, they wouldnt turn down the opportunity of getting with a girl.

    so guys who take so long to lose their virginity and gain sexual experience, assuming its not because they're waiting for the right person, why does this happen?
    maybe because usually the guy has to approach the girl, and obviously some guys are naturally quiet or shy and might not have the confidence to ask a girl out, so it takes them a while to build up the confidence to ask a girl out
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    The chance may not necessarily arise, and if it does not everything will jump on that chance.
 
 
 
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