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    Morning all,

    Basically i've plucked up the courage to ask a girl I like out for a drink - she said yes!

    So how do I play things on the date?

    What's the standard etiquette? Girls what do you like to see?

    Should I go for a kiss at the end if all goes well?

    Thanks a lot!
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    Just go with the flow...
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    It's always a good idea to go naked.

    youknow, let her know what she's in for. :yy:
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    I know you're nervous, but this isn't the place to ask... we don't know you, her, or the circumstance.

    I'm going to have to go for a phrase muttered by 1000s of advice givers over the years:

    Be your self! :cool:
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    Yay congrats. Just do what feels natural and be yourself =) No point giving a false impression. Maybe think of some things to talk about in advance just in case things go a bit quiet and you want to avoid an awkward silence.

    Kissing at the end is all kind of subjective, but personally if I thought things had gone well and he didn't at least try and kiss me I'd wonder why. Saying goodbye without a kiss can be slightly awkward in my experience. You either get the rubbish 'half hug' or just walk off, which is probably worse. So kisses ftw =)
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    Just be yourself.
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    Make sure you bring a condom.
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    act like a ********.
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    Act cool, bro. Chicks love that.

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    No seriously, just be yourself
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    :ahee: Just be yourself.
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    (Original post by f1rules)
    Morning all,

    Basically i've plucked up the courage to ask a girl I like out for a drink - she said yes!

    So how do I play things on the date?

    What's the standard etiquette? Girls what do you like to see?

    Should I go for a kiss at the end if all goes well?

    Thanks a lot!
    just be yourself and go with the flow
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    All these cliches don't help a great deal IMO. Op needs to know how that translates into action. What if himself is naturally a quiet ultra polite geek? Being himself isn't gonna help much in that case.
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    Talk about F1
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    just b urself and dont rush into things so quickly get to know each other more and then ur friendship can take one step further and maybe even go back to ur place.. find out her hobbies and was she likes etc and keep flow goin and then she may fall 4 u...xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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    Be nice to her.

    And yeah, it's good to talk about hobbies and intersests, but maybe don't mention your collection of Nazi memorabilia until at least the third date.
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    yh that prob best thing to do... also B A GD LISTENER TO HER as most guys dont i no i've been there lol
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    Wear a vest.
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    Don't get too pissed, you're night may go so well that you're just about to have sex but brewers droop may kick in
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    In before "just be yourself".


    Oh wait, too late.
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    right well this is easy hun u just need to chill relax dont be up tight and dont act like a idiot just be kidn to ehr and take htings slow dont be the last to make a move but dont be the first make sure u dotn force her in to anythink make sure shes cool with stuff 2 xx
 
 
 
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