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    Yeah.. so I've been teasing one of my best mates about this guy on our course for a while.. He showed a couple of signs he might like her..She sort of knew him initially but laughed it off when I brought up the possibility of her actually ever liking him..
    Recently, I've been getting to know him better, and he really is one of the sweetest, nicest people I've ever met. Initially, this was great.. and i told my friend all this.. i joked around at the prospect of playing cupid and she admitted perhaps she could like him eventually with time. But shes not sure if she would for the right reasons if she did..
    The issue is..
    I think I may have developed feelings for him.. (I admit i sort of had a crush on him for months, but gave up as soon as I realised he might like my mate)..i feel really strange because i'm the one who really pushed for my friend to consider him as an option in the first place. Now i dont want to lose my friend, so i'm not even considering getting in the way, if she is interested..
    I could speak to my friend about the fact I might actually like this guy i've been hyping up the past few weeks.. but the issue is she knows i just came out of a sort of fling with someone else, and I dont want her to feel like I'm some sort of desperate maneating ****.

    Besides, if he does like her, I can get over it.. It's just the 'what if' thats getting to me right now

    Its just, i'm not sure if I can play cupid anymore- its not fair on my friend, is it?
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    Just do what you want.

    I did a similar thing and lost out on an amazing girl. But just because it happened this way for me doesn't mean it'll be the samew for you.
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    This is what you get when you meddle.
 
 
 
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