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    ANON OR DELETE!

    Say if you knew this guy randomly from Facebook and then coincedentally they ended up living in the same halls as you/ Over time you got more closer and he ended up spending all of his time with you in your room/flat. Do you think he may get the wrong idea and assume it may lead to sex or a relationship? I mean he comes after I finish my lectures and then leaves around 12ish.

    PLEASE HELP!!!
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    I'm confused!

    You like him? You don't like him? You are spending that much time with him but you do/don't want anything to be between you two?
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    yawn

    this sentence should be stickied:

    GUYS AND GIRLS CANNOT BE FRIENDS.

    Either one likes the other, or they both like each other...etc
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    just dont do anything to give him the wrong idea.
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    He wants to *** before he leaves at 12ish. :yes:
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    (Original post by Rancorous)
    yawn

    this sentence should be stickied:

    GUYS AND GIRLS CANNOT BE FRIENDS.

    Either one likes the other, or they both like each other...etc

    Do you actually believe that?
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    (Original post by uktom91)
    Do you actually believe that?
    Yeah, if you define friends as people who enjoy each other's company without any sexual attraction. Because you can't shut off sexual attraction like a gay guy can't make himself straight.
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    (Original post by Rancorous)
    Yeah, if you define friends as people who enjoy each other's company without any sexual attraction. Because you can't shut off sexual attraction like a gay guy can't make himself straight.
    yeah but i know this epically fat ugly girl who i would never see in that way but theyre still a friend lol
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    (Original post by uktom91)
    yeah but i know this epically fat ugly girl who i would never see in that way but theyre still a friend lol
    That's the point; she'll like you. Reread - either they both like each other, or one likes the other. Don't believe me? Go to a bar, have shots, look deep into her eyes and try it on with her; I bet you a million squid she'll jump you.
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    (Original post by Rancorous)
    That's the point; she'll like you. Reread - either they both like each other, or one likes the other. Don't believe me? Go to a bar, have shots, look deep into her eyes and try it on with her; I bet you a million squid she'll jump you.
    oh missed that bit lol, i agree with you on that. i actually cant think of a situation where both havent liked each other come to think of it
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    Guys and girls can be just friends.

    OP, erm, ask him?
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    Get a restraining order.
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    :facepalm: at the jocks in this thread.
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    I just like him as a friend but don't know how to tell him to back off without sounding rude
 
 
 
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