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    Hey,

    Well im really curious if i am bi or not. I know i am attracted to men i see myself getting married and having kids and all that. But when i see a woman i see her sexually attractive. Im just not sure.
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    Sounds pretty bisexual to me...

    That's what liking men and women is. I'm straight because I only find one (females) sexually attractive.
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    Don't worry about it, there's nothing wrong with it and you'll probably become more sure of what you like over time
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    instead of seeing sexuality in boxes, straight -bi - gay try and see it more as a continuum...

    straight I-------------------------------------------------------------------------I gay


    where would you put yourself? from the sound of it, i'd put you about here

    straight I-------------------------------------------------------------------------I gay

    but obviously you'll know better than me
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    This reminds me of a cartoon I liked. It was a woman saying "Oh yes, I'm bilingual! I don't actually speak another language.....but I'm very curious about it!"

    Anyway, I don't see the point in labelling yourself. It could be that you can just appreciate the beauty of another woman, it could be that you'd like to screw her. I think you have to try these things to really know.
    I have a lot of friends who get quite aroused looking at other women but actually doing stuff with one does nothing for them.
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    Seeing someone as sexually attractive does not automatically mean you are bi or gay. As you can gather from my username, I am male and even today, I find some men attractive, there is nothing wrong with that. If you have a trusting friend who is also curious, maybe you could kiss and see if you like it. Sounds bizzarre, but there is only one way to find out for certain. Then again, these thoughts may just go away in time.
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    There's a very useful website, forgotten the link but makes an excellent point.

    Do you fancy the opposite sex, or someone of the opposite sex?

    Do you fancy someone of the same sex?

    If so, you are bisexual.

    Obviously there's more to it, but that's a pretty good start!
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    Sometimes you might also be totally heterosexual but fall in love with someone of the same sex.

    In general if it is sexual attraction to people of the same sex in general as well as the opposite sex, congrats you are bi.

    But only you know, no one here can tell you
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    Yep, bi-curious at least
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    Freak
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    I can't believe nobody's suggested a threesome yet.

    TSR, you disappoint me.
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    God loves you just remember to PRAY THE GAY AWAY!
 
 
 
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