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    basically, i'm a girl and i'm just not satisfied.

    Our limit so far is 2 times in a day, but is it unreasonable to expect more??! what's the average?!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    basically, i'm a girl and i'm just not satisfied.

    Our limit so far is 2 times in a day, but is it unreasonable to expect more??! what's the average?!
    You clearly have a high sex drive. Dont worry about what the average is, becasue its totally different for everyone and depends on your personal situation.

    For example by boyfriend and I go to different uni's so usually only see each other once or maybe twice a week. If we saw each other more often our number would probably be higher.

    Its not unreasonable but remember your other half may not have a sex drive as high as yours so you may have to comprimise.

    xx
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    I just feel desperately frustrated because I want to have sex, but at the same time I don't orgasm so it just makes me more and more in the mood. I would go about 5 times or more every couple of hours if I could!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I just feel desperately frustrated because I want to have sex, but at the same time I don't orgasm so it just makes me more and more in the mood. I would go about 5 times or more every couple of hours if I could!
    Relax, you'll tire your poor boyfriend out! :p: If you're not orgasming and he is then no wonder you want more. Have you tried practising on yourself so you can bring yourself to orgasm? I've heard a lot of girls have trouble with orgasming but if they work out what they like then it makes it easier to recreate with their boyfriends later. If you orgasm more you'll probably feel more satisfied.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    basically, i'm a girl and i'm just not satisfied.

    Our limit so far is 2 times in a day, but is it unreasonable to expect more??! what's the average?!
    Well, yes and no. If your boyfriend/ partner is to ejaculate each time, more than 2 times a day will tire him out.

    Can I ask how long it lasts for you each time?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    basically, i'm a girl and i'm just not satisfied.

    Our limit so far is 2 times in a day, but is it unreasonable to expect more??! what's the average?!
    Without drugs the max that a man is likely to do is around 5 times a day. If they use drugs such as Viagra I’m sure it could be more.

    You should probably invest in a vibrator. I just made a post explaining my views on the subject over in shinytoys’ thread in the H&R forum post 186, here if you’re interested.

    http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show...478990&page=10
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    it lasts about...5 to 10 minutes? we've not been doing it very long. but still!!

    also i know ho to make myself orgasm, but i dont think he could recreate that
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    is more than two poxy times a day really too much to ask

    and the reason i'm not quoting you guys is because i don't want you to know who i am
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    I think you should try to make the two times you have better, that will help. Talk to him about it
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    Yeah, make the two times you are doing it better. Then you will feel less need to do it more.
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    Average for me would be about twice. I have a pretty high sex drive but I don't want to break my poor boyfriend
    The most we'd done it in one day was 4 times and tbh, we were both a bit shattered after!
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    ok good suggestions :P straight after i don't want to but when we're lying there naked after thirty mins i'm ready!!!
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    Me and my BF have at least 1 rocking shag a day. Sometimes we miss days here and there though. We have done 3 or 4 times in a day before and he wasn't up for it for a few days afterwards. I think 2 a day is about the appropriate limit for him to maintain. Any more and he needs a day off. I think your problem is quality not quantity though. Let him get more comfortable with you and it should get better.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I just feel desperately frustrated because I want to have sex, but at the same time I don't orgasm so it just makes me more and more in the mood. I would go about 5 times or more every couple of hours if I could!
    I agree with this. Just ends up being an epic let down and getting me in a worse mood.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    it lasts about...5 to 10 minutes? we've not been doing it very long. but still!!

    also i know ho to make myself orgasm, but i dont think he could recreate that
    It doesn't just have to be HIM recreating it, you could help yourself along! I mean, I doubt I would orgasm during sex if I wasn't helping myself, and I doubt he'll mind!
    And also, I don't think people can tell who you are if you quote
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    also i know ho to make myself orgasm, but i dont think he could recreate that
    Well a big part of good sex is mutual pleasure giving, so I'm sure your partner will be more than happy to be taught how to please you. It doesn't come naturally to people, don't be afraid to give advice and guidance otherwise he'll never learn how to please you.

    Alternatively yeah you could help yourself along as previous poster said.
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    I've had sex 4 times in a period of 10/11 hours.. Was great. You get a bit sore though lol
    I like it at least twice in a night.
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    Doing it multiple times means nothing if the act itself isn't very long and very good. It's better to have a few good ones than many bad ones.
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    I just feel desperately frustrated because I want to have sex, but at the same time I don't orgasm so it just makes me more and more in the mood. I would go about 5 times or more every couple of hours if I could!
    I'm exactly the same, after sex I'm still up for more... He can get an erection easily afterwards but sex gets sore for him after a while, turns out I don't orgasm easily
    I love him hard though
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    When I see my partner I would say we average out at about 1-3 times a day.
 
 
 
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