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    HI, so I've been going out with this guy since last Sunday, only seen him once since he asked me out but I'm really not feeling this relationship.. I have loads of commitments with college and work...whereas he has neither. He sends me texts everyday saying he misses me and texts me LOADS. Im supposed to be meeting him this evening but I feel like I'd rather have a girlie night out.. the problem is he's always in the same local pub as me and its going to be really awkward if I break up with him as I'll see him so often and we're in the same friendship group... what shal I do?! Thanks x
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    HI, so I've been going out with this guy since last Sunday, only seen him once since he asked me out but I'm really not feeling this relationship.. I have loads of commitments with college and work...whereas he has neither. He sends me texts everyday saying he misses me and texts me LOADS. Im supposed to be meeting him this evening but I feel like I'd rather have a girlie night out.. the problem is he's always in the same local pub as me and its going to be really awkward if I break up with him as I'll see him so often and we're in the same friendship group... what shal I do?! Thanks x
    If you're 'not feeling this relationship', then you should trust your gut and end it with him.

    One of the problems here is that he texts you way too much. He's literally smothering you with attention, and you find it a turn off.

    Always remember the saying 'He/she who loves least controls the relationship'. He wants/needs you more than you need him.

    Why on earth did you go out with him in the first place if you don't feel attracted to him?

    Just be straight with him and tell him you're not feeling this relationship and that you'd rather just be friends. He'll get the message. Good luck.
 
 
 
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