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    i do not know if this is the right site for me to talk about this but i am really concerned about my cousin.he has come to live with us for a while. i think he is sexually attracted to me and i am disturbed about this.last night when we were having dinner he pushed his chair very close to mine and started whispering in my ear....i was too scared and shocked to listen to what he was saying and to make matters worse after dinner he volunteered to help me but it was just a move to get closer to me. he started by carassing my back very slowly and when i stiffened and tried to push him away he forced his hands around me very tightly and said he loved me and i should know that. i was too scared and angry to scream out loud and started crying... i am truly creeped out about this and am need of opinions on what to do. i hope you guys can help me out on this one!!
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    (Original post by angelstie16)
    i do not know if this is the right site for me to talk about this but i am really concerned about my cousin.he has come to live with us for a while. i think he is sexually attracted to me and i am disturbed about this.last night when we were having dinner he pushed his chair very close to mine and started whispering in my ear....i was too scared and shocked to listen to what he was saying and to make matters worse after dinner he volunteered to help me but it was just a move to get closer to me. he started by carassing my back very slowly and when i stiffened and tried to push him away he forced his hands around me very tightly and said he loved me and i should know that. i was too scared and angry to scream out loud and started crying... i am truly creeped out about this and am need of opinions on what to do. i hope you guys can help me out on this one!!
    Oh that's very odd.

    Where are you from? I know it's normal in some countries but then it doesn't make it right.
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    i am from chicago and yeah its odd because i dont know wether i should get a specialist's help or not...
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    (Original post by angelstie16)
    i do not know if this is the right site for me to talk about this but i am really concerned about my cousin.he has come to live with us for a while. i think he is sexually attracted to me and i am disturbed about this.last night when we were having dinner he pushed his chair very close to mine and started whispering in my ear....i was too scared and shocked to listen to what he was saying and to make matters worse after dinner he volunteered to help me but it was just a move to get closer to me. he started by carassing my back very slowly and when i stiffened and tried to push him away he forced his hands around me very tightly and said he loved me and i should know that. i was too scared and angry to scream out loud and started crying... i am truly creeped out about this and am need of opinions on what to do. i hope you guys can help me out on this one!!
    Run for the hills!
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    Go on the Jeremy Kyle show. :pierre:
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    (Original post by angelstie16)
    i do not know if this is the right site for me to talk about this but i am really concerned about my cousin.he has come to live with us for a while. i think he is sexually attracted to me and i am disturbed about this.last night when we were having dinner he pushed his chair very close to mine and started whispering in my ear....i was too scared and shocked to listen to what he was saying and to make matters worse after dinner he volunteered to help me but it was just a move to get closer to me. he started by carassing my back very slowly and when i stiffened and tried to push him away he forced his hands around me very tightly and said he loved me and i should know that. i was too scared and angry to scream out loud and started crying... i am truly creeped out about this and am need of opinions on what to do. i hope you guys can help me out on this one!!
    Tell your parents and his parents obviously. And show them what you've written here.
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    (Original post by serenitybs65ee)
    ****Do you international students have lot of British friends?
    It's totally negative. I always moved through diversified societies in my life. Here in UK when I moved my step to anyone(all English not all British) expecially the young boys and girls(14-34), they instantly avoided me. European don't like other race. English hates different coloures as they think their ancestors ruled the world and we should still be their subjects. [For Sex I have seen some women like Black race personalities(By born British) for a physical exceptionality but that is not general friendship] Other than white, International students should never come Europe mostly U.K. for higher education, should go to Canada, USA or Japan. With the name of diversity, UK is doing business; Her people hates different colour foreighner where they live on benefits; it's shame. 2-4% British can be different, I must respect them. But exception is not general.
    ******************************** ******Would a white girl date an Indian guy?
    No. White Girls think Indian guys regarding Sex as belows
    I have found White Girls(Europe Not USA) thinks about South East Asian
    1) They r dirty(Depends from person to person)
    2) Smell Onion(Depends from person to person)
    3) Not experience on sex(True)
    4) Religious(True)
    5) Don't want to marry white girls(True) [Because Indians want to marry their own country girls, so relation with white girls only for sex; My Comment: Very Disgusting-European White girls change boys as change clothes, And Indian people can't tolerate their partner is making sex with other. So they can't trust White girls, that is why sex is the only attraction to the wicked Indians(not everybody) find]. There are exception also. True love overcomes these, but with English Girls it is very rare.
    6) European mostly English white Girls think Indians were their subjects, so they are not eligible to have relation with them[100% True; VERY MUCH DISGUSTING]
    7) Skin Allergies and Prejudice(70-30%)
    lolWUT.

    No seriously, what the hell has that got to do with the post? Go spout your bigoted ignorance somewhere else.
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    OP, what he has done sounds very creepy and disturbing. Whether or not he is your cousin, you felt intimidated and uncomfortable around him because of his actions; no one is allowed to make you feel this way.

    Can you talk to your parents about this? I know it might be difficult beause he is "family".
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    (Original post by balface)
    lolWUT.

    No seriously, what the hell has that got to do with the post? Go spout your bigoted ignorance somewhere else.
    I'm going to write an opera about that post and call it Skin Allergies and Prejudice. It'll debut at the Bayreuth Festspielhaus. People will never stop cheering it. Even after the universe fades to black, you'll hear Lt. George from Blackadder say "You know, I actually thought that was bloody good. Father would have loved it." Then the end credits will kick in, Directed and Written by God (however you decide to define that word), Special Effects by The Laws of Thermodynamics, etc.
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    I'm going to write an opera about that post and call it Skin Allergies and Prejudice. It'll debut at the Bayreuth Festspielhaus. People will never stop cheering it. Even after the universe fades to black, you'll hear Lt. George from Blackadder say "You know, I actually thought that was bloody good. Father would have loved it." Then the end credits will kick in, Directed and Written by God (however you decide to define that word), Special Effects by The Laws of Thermodynamics, etc.
    Lol! you funny
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    it will be very difficult guys believe me...many people know my family as the ''posh'' guys you know what i am talking about and something like this will blow our reputation into small shards..this is just insane!my hands are tied behind my back for nothing....
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    I'm going to write an opera about that post and call it Skin Allergies and Prejudice. It'll debut at the Bayreuth Festspielhaus. People will never stop cheering it. Even after the universe fades to black, you'll hear Lt. George from Blackadder say "You know, I actually thought that was bloody good. Father would have loved it." Then the end credits will kick in, Directed and Written by God (however you decide to define that word), Special Effects by The Laws of Thermodynamics, etc.
    you wOn't do anything like that please!!!
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    (Original post by babygirl110)
    Oh that's very odd.

    Where are you from? I know it's normal in some countries but then it doesn't make it right.
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    (Original post by angelstie16)
    it will be very difficult guys believe me...many people know my family as the ''posh'' guys you know what i am talking about and something like this will blow our reputation into small shards..this is just insane!my hands are tied behind my back for nothing....
    I suggest you start putting some evidence of his advances towards you together. that way if it ever gets to the point where its you againts him, you'll have proof. because families usually tend to take the side of the guy.
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    (Original post by angelstie16)
    it will be very difficult guys believe me...many people know my family as the ''posh'' guys you know what i am talking about and something like this will blow our reputation into small shards..this is just insane!my hands are tied behind my back for nothing....
    If you can't tell your family, then the only thing that I can say is to stay away from him. Please, just keep your distance from him.
    Just do everything within your power to avoid being in a room/house/situation alone with him. He sounds like a complete creep who might be violent/forceful if he doesn't get his own way.
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    (Original post by angelstie16)
    i do not know if this is the right site for me to talk about this but i am really concerned about my cousin.he has come to live with us for a while. i think he is sexually attracted to me and i am disturbed about this.last night when we were having dinner he pushed his chair very close to mine and started whispering in my ear....i was too scared and shocked to listen to what he was saying and to make matters worse after dinner he volunteered to help me but it was just a move to get closer to me. he started by carassing my back very slowly and when i stiffened and tried to push him away he forced his hands around me very tightly and said he loved me and i should know that. i was too scared and angry to scream out loud and started crying... i am truly creeped out about this and am need of opinions on what to do. i hope you guys can help me out on this one!!
    Invest in a Tazer.
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    Tell your parents immediately! That is weird and he needs to know his limits, before he does something bad!
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    Call the police - attempting incest
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    I bet he strokes your hair whilst you sleep.
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    you speak to them as little as possible etc. etc. I've been in the same situation and it worked for me.
 
 
 
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