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    This post is really sad, but I want to celebrate new year with friends and have fun, but I have no 'close' friends to celebrate with.

    All the people I know are going to be celebrating with other 'friends', people different from this group and im left out. I'm not going to ask them if I can tag along because if they wanted me their they would have asked, and I dont want to seem like im desperate to them, as they think I have other friends, which I dont have anymore as I lost touch, which wasnt necessarily my fault as I had alot of issues to deal with at the time. I've lost touch with so many people, I've tried contacting a few, saying we should meet up sometime, but they just say 'yeah...', and we leave it at that. I dont even have facebook anymore, as I'm worried people will judge me for not knowing many people. I mean...i know some great people at uni, but they think I have alot of friends back home, which I dont. If i was to get fb again, they would know the truth, and I would feel so awkward.

    I dont really know how to get out of this situation apart from telling the truth to everyone that im in a bad social situation at the moment, but I cant risk being rejected by the few people I have left, who I lied to. I mean I do meet up with my 'friends' occasionally when everyone is home from uni, but thats about it. I have nothing in common with them anymore. I also dont want my family, cousins etc, to think im a loser when im doing nothing for new year, I know it upsets and alienates my sister when she thinks I dont have anyone and im not happy. I basically just want everyone to think im happy with my social life, while i try to rebuild it.

    Dam, this topic sounds so shallow and immature, but it really isnt, I just want everyone to think and feel like im 'part' of a group and think im happy, which I am, just not with this social **** going on. Anyway, so, i know this is sad, but could anyone of you guys invite me out for new year? I have nowhere else to turn to right now. I'm quite social, average looking, 20 british indian, 5ft 6 1/2, from kingston. I would be so grateful... and I will pay for your drinks all night! X

    I can send pics as well.
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    (Original post by gingers have souls)
    This post is really sad, but I want to celebrate new year with friends and have fun, but I have no 'close' friends to celebrate with.

    All the people I know are going to be celebrating with other 'friends', people different from this group and im left out. I'm not going to ask them if I can tag along because if they wanted me their they would have asked, and I dont want to seem like im desperate to them, as they think I have other friends, which I dont have anymore as I lost touch, which wasnt necessarily my fault as I had alot of issues to deal with at the time. I've lost touch with so many people, I've tried contacting a few, saying we should meet up sometime, but they just say 'yeah...', and we leave it at that. I dont even have facebook anymore, as I'm worried people will judge me for not knowing many people. I mean...i know some great people at uni, but they think I have alot of friends back home, which I dont. If i was to get fb again, they would know the truth, and I would feel so awkward.

    I dont really know how to get out of this situation apart from telling the truth to everyone that im in a bad social situation at the moment, but I cant risk being rejected by the few people I have left, who I lied to. I mean I do meet up with my 'friends' occasionally when everyone is home from uni, but thats about it. I have nothing in common with them anymore. I also dont want my family, cousins etc, to think im a loser when im doing nothing for new year, I know it upsets and alienates my sister when she thinks I dont have anyone and im not happy. I basically just want everyone to think im happy with my social life, while i try to rebuild it.

    Dam, this topic sounds so shallow and immature, but it really isnt, I just want everyone to think and feel like im 'part' of a group and think im happy, which I am, just not with this social **** going on. Anyway, so, i know this is sad, but could anyone of you guys invite me out for new year? I have nowhere else to turn to right now. I'm quite social, average looking, 20 british indian, 5ft 6 1/2, from kingston. I would be so grateful... and I will pay for your drinks all night! X

    I can send pics as well.
    too long, didnt read. if youre a girl then come over my place and well have rampant sex throughout the coming of the new year. if youre a boy then well watch porn together and order a polish hooker.
 
 
 
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