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    Ok, I admit maybe I shouldn't have hacked his hotmail and facebook but his hotmail is FULL of pictures of different girls (whom he knows).

    He's still kept naked pics of his ex and tons of other girls whom I don't know at all. (the worst thing is that many of these are women over 30...he's 25).

    What annoys me more is RECENT pictures of online "friends" of his! I also found a comment on fb where he said that he's said a naked picture of himself to a girl and that was when we were going out

    I feel so hurt, I don't know what to do!!

    How should I tell him? I feel so mad and hurt
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    You're a **** for prying, serves you right, I hope you can't sleep because you're thinking about this
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    Ok, I admit maybe I shouldn't have hacked his hotmail and facebook but his hotmail is FULL of pictures of different girls (whom he knows).

    He's still kept naked pics of his ex and tons of other girls whom I don't know at all. (the worst thing is that many of these are women over 30...he's 25).

    What annoys me more is RECENT pictures of online "friends" of his! I also found a comment on fb where he said that he's said a naked picture of himself to a girl and that was when we were going out

    I feel so hurt, I don't know what to do!!

    How should I tell him? I feel so mad and hurt
    Maybe you shouldn't have? :lolwut:
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    Ok, I SHOULDN'T have, but what do I do now???
    and tbh I don't regret it, I wanted to know coz he still kinda flirts online and it annoys me...
    and I've told him a million times...
    If he knew I knew what he was up to, he wouldn't be doing it!

    I admit I did something wrong, but what he did was far more wrong!
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    I hate this saying so much, but he really does seem like a massive lad.
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    He sounds like a douchebag to be honest. I think you should sit down with him and talk to him about it. I certainly wouldn't be able to keep my mouth shut.

    Snooping was wrong but ultimately, you did find some incriminating stuff - saying he'll send naked pictures to another girl while you're going out in not on.
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    (Original post by CoffeeStinks)
    Although it may seem uncomfortable now just let it go.

    Think of it as watching porn, as long as he isn't intimate with them then don't stress too much.
    It's not quite like watching porn when you know the girls.

    Op, he may have cheated on you. :beard:
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    dats bad
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    Ok, I SHOULDN'T have, but what do I do now???
    and tbh I don't regret it, I wanted to know coz he still kinda flirts online and it annoys me...
    and I've told him a million times...
    If he knew I knew what he was up to, he wouldn't be doing it!

    I admit I did something wrong, but what he did was far more wrong!
    Not really... You're both betraying each other's trust. Amusingly, though, you both led to your own downfall - if he wasn't a flirt, you wouldn't have looked and if you hadn't look, you wouldn't know.

    Think of it as penance.
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    (Original post by davidmarsh01)
    I hate this saying so much, but he really does seem like a massive lad.
    (Original post by balface)
    He sounds like a douchebag to be honest..
    haha

    what difference your sex can make in forming opinions.
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    Ok, I SHOULDN'T have, but what do I do now???
    and tbh I don't regret it, I wanted to know coz he still kinda flirts online and it annoys me...
    and I've told him a million times...
    If he knew I knew what he was up to, he wouldn't be doing it!

    I admit I did something wrong, but what he did was far more wrong!
    Break up with him, this relationship isn't likely to work. You can't confront him about the pictures because he will know you hacked him, and if you do then he will dodge the question and question your trustfulness whilst your questioning his faithfulness. Naked pictures of girls who he knows isn't a good sign of a stable relationship. If you aren't wiling to allow him to continue with collecting the pictures then...
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    I think you lost all the moral high ground discussion-wise when you looked at his emails tbh.
    Even if you bring it up in conversation, you will just end up arguing about trust issues rather than the pictures themselves (which might not be a bad thing- why would you look if you trusted him in the first place?)
    Think about why you are with him and why you like him. Does what you now know about him change those previous opinions?
    You've both sort of messed up here...
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    leave him.
    faith and trust are the most important parts of a relationship
    you deserve better
    in a marrige, you're the only one he should be intimate with or see anything.
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    could be worse! could be naked men with beards :eek:
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    what the heck
    ignore people who say you did wrong by hacking
    you had hints he was doing this
    you didn't just do it
    you had a lead.
    and you were right.
    HE IS DOING SOMETHING WRONG, AND YOU ONLY FOLLOWED YOUR GUT AND FOUND OUT.

    condemn the guy, not the faithfull women people
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    You should print out the pictures, and wallpaper his room with them. Then, maybe I don't know, I'm tired, but may I suggest scrawling on the wall in faeces "PICTURE THIS; I'M LEAVING YOU."

    Either do that, or do one of those awesome collages that are a big picture, comprised of many small pictures. Make the picture be of something hilarious, or maudlin, I'll leave the details to you.

    Ciao.
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    Would you rather he faps over pics of his exes or actually goes behind your back......again.......and plays Hide The Salami with them?

    Exactly :yep: If it bothers you so much, you should either dump him or just not snoop at your boyfriends emails in future. Simples
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    (Original post by Captain92)
    I think you lost all the moral high ground discussion-wise when you looked at his emails tbh.
    Even if you bring it up in conversation, you will just end up arguing about trust issues rather than the pictures themselves (which might not be a bad thing- why would you look if you trusted him in the first place?)
    Think about why you are with him and why you like him. Does what you now know about him change those previous opinions?
    You've both sort of messed up here...
    Well, once while we sort of arguing he said that he didn't trust me. Also, he's VERY jealous which makes me think that he's doing stuff like that.
    And then he kept on flirting on fb, so I had to look....
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    (Original post by Emmak7)
    Ok, I admit maybe I shouldn't have hacked his hotmail and facebook but his hotmail is FULL of pictures of different girls (whom he knows).

    He's still kept naked pics of his ex and tons of other girls whom I don't know at all. (the worst thing is that many of these are women over 30...he's 25).

    What annoys me more is RECENT pictures of online "friends" of his! I also found a comment on fb where he said that he's said a naked picture of himself to a girl and that was when we were going out

    I feel so hurt, I don't know what to do!!

    How should I tell him? I feel so mad and hurt
    You obviously don't turn him on enough then....


    (Original post by CoffeeStinks)
    Although it may seem uncomfortable now just let it go.

    Think of it as watching porn, as long as he isn't intimate with them then don't stress too much.
    Worst
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    How about rather then ignoring it, you deal with the problem and ask him? Holy ****! That may sort something out! We can't be having that now can we! :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Captain92)
    I think you lost all the moral high ground discussion-wise when you looked at his emails tbh.
    Even if you bring it up in conversation, you will just end up arguing about trust issues rather than the pictures themselves (which might not be a bad thing- why would you look if you trusted him in the first place?)
    Think about why you are with him and why you like him. Does what you now know about him change those previous opinions?
    You've both sort of messed up here...
    I agree... when it gets to the point you NEED to hack in.. which you shouldn't do, there is a deeper issue: trust. Trust is what a relationship is based on and if neither side of the couple has it... it doesn't bode well.
 
 
 
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