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    I used to self harm a couple of years ago
    and I've started up again and I hate it.

    Things have been difficult, I'm struggling to concentrate at sixth form
    I feel quite lonely even though I have a fair few friends that I'm happy when I'm with. The worst bit is I've been doing stuff I shouldn't. I've been going on webcam to guys I've met on the internet and I feel absolutely nothing, I want to feel some sense of shame or regret but I don't. I've never had a serious boyfriend and even though I've been told multiple times I'm attractive etc, they all just want me for some fun then ditch me, however I am a virgin and have done some things sexually but not a lot. I guess I've just given up on thinking anyone will want me. I just feel I'll be alone forever, It'd be nice if someone just liked me for me.
    I can't even cry anymore, I just feel quite empty, especially when I'm alone.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I used to self harm a couple of years ago
    and I've started up again and I hate it.

    Things have been difficult, I'm struggling to concentrate at sixth form
    I feel quite lonely even though I have a fair few friends that I'm happy when I'm with. The worst bit is I've been doing stuff I shouldn't. I've been going on webcam to guys I've met on the internet and I feel absolutely nothing, I want to feel some sense of shame or regret but I don't. I've never had a serious boyfriend and even though I've been told multiple times I'm attractive etc, they all just want me for some fun then ditch me, however I am a virgin and have done some things sexually but not a lot. I guess I've just given up on thinking anyone will want me. I just feel I'll be alone forever, It'd be nice if someone just liked me for me.
    I can't even cry anymore, I just feel quite empty, especially when I'm alone.
    Why don't you speak to a family member or a close friend about it. Or even your 6th form guidance tutor. I know it seems hard to talk to someone about this big issue, but trust me as soon as you tell someone you'll feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off your shoulders. Trust that first step is really hard, but it's is worth it. Alternatively you can call samaritans as a first step, then work your way up from there to telling a someone you know.
    Please get in contact:http://www.samaritans.org/talk_to_someone.aspx
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    Hey come on don't feel like that. School days are the worse days of our lives. I'm in sixth form and my life too sucks. All 5 of my best friends left after AS for college or work so i'm not really close to anyone there. I really want to go to university to make a better life for my family (it's not easy being the smart one) but i'm terriffied i won't get the grades. And i think i'm pretty messed up when it comes to men i've been stalked, flashed (ripped torsos)... The point i'm trying to make is life can get pretty miserable but at some point it will get better and everything you want can happen and at times you can feel empty and dark and shallow, but if you look at the world there is so much crazy **** going on annd even though it feels like you alone your not and i care and i really want you to stop self harming.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I used to self harm a couple of years ago
    and I've started up again and I hate it.

    Things have been difficult, I'm struggling to concentrate at sixth form
    I feel quite lonely even though I have a fair few friends that I'm happy when I'm with. The worst bit is I've been doing stuff I shouldn't. I've been going on webcam to guys I've met on the internet and I feel absolutely nothing, I want to feel some sense of shame or regret but I don't. I've never had a serious boyfriend and even though I've been told multiple times I'm attractive etc, they all just want me for some fun then ditch me, however I am a virgin and have done some things sexually but not a lot. I guess I've just given up on thinking anyone will want me. I just feel I'll be alone forever, It'd be nice if someone just liked me for me.
    I can't even cry anymore, I just feel quite empty, especially when I'm alone.
    Why do you resort to self harm?
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    (Original post by Law123mus)
    Why don't you speak to a family member or a close friend about it. Or even your 6th form guidance tutor. I know it seems hard to talk to someone about this big issue, but trust me as soon as you tell someone you'll feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off your shoulders. Trust that first step is really hard, but it's is worth it. Alternatively you can call samaritans as a first step, then work your way up from there to telling a someone you know.
    Please get in contact:http://www.samaritans.org/talk_to_someone.aspx

    Pretty much what this guy says.
    You're finding things difficult but the ways in which you are reacting aren't healthy.You need to talk to someone, preferably who's impartial and will give you advice that will best benefit you.

    Good luck!
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    Why did you stop last time? Maybe it can work again.
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    Get yourself some goals in life, dude, and all the fog will clear up.
    "When we ignore where we sail towards, no wind is favorable" Seneca.
 
 
 
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