Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free
    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    anon or delete as girlfriend knows im on this

    been with my girlfriend for 2 years, lately we have broke up and got back together so many times over fights

    i finally ended things and explained why in a text, saying she has no respect for me, she is aggresive and i want her out of my life for good

    now ive come to realise i think the reason she disrespected me was maybe because i was so emotionally cold with her? i never complimented her or made her feel worthy at all, it got to the point where we were both trying to be nastier than the other one just to have the upper hand and i feel thats where all our problems lie, i dont want to run back to her because she needs to learn how to have respect but i do want to know we should give it a shot, but weve broke up that many times lately,,,, i think ive just realised where our problems lie though

    now i wont accept any more disrespect if i get her back, but how would i go about getting her back? its been 6 days since we broke up, she ignored my text id sent her (which never stated about the good times weve had) and she has removed me from facebook etc, no contact since, is it unlikely she will message me after i told her i want her gone for good?
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    Yeah sorry mate, dead relationship is dead.
    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    (Original post by ithoughtofthis)
    Yeah sorry mate, dead relationship is dead.
    i thought that brah but when were not arguing trying to be better than the other one we do have a good laugh and i can give her the cold shoulder a fair bit


    i duno brah
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i thought that brah but when were not arguing trying to be better than the other one we do have a good laugh and i can give her the cold shoulder a fair bit


    i duno brah
    Yeah you guys can probably still be friends or something.
    But you need a new girlfriend...who you treat well and argue less with! Ya know what im sayin'...
    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    (Original post by ithoughtofthis)
    Yeah you guys can probably still be friends or something.
    But you need a new girlfriend...who you treat well and argue less with! Ya know what im sayin'...
    you believe there is no chance she would want to get back with me after i told her to stay out my life and she deleted herself?

    i dont want to sound like i need her but id love to give it a shot

    maybe im being stupid
    • #1
    • Thread Starter
    #1

    wtff
    • #2
    #2

    ffs you explained everything to her in text??! no wonder she has no respect for you ! you clearly have no balls and text!!! that;s disrespectful to her you moron
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    hijacking the thread...
    Oh boohoo!
    Look you blew you relationship, the only way she might take you back is if you change and start being more affectionate. You may have to serenade her to get her attention.

    (Original post by Arcanine)
    No I just got the whole image of Google.
    Ah. I see. Man that is poor lol.

    (Original post by ian_cantoni)
    haha this is brilliant,

    in fact it looks a lot like me!! big and fat!!

    however at least my relationship isnt dead in the water!!

    IAN CANTONI - i own you all, and eat you all
    And lol whaattt?

    TSR is strange tonight.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by polaroid13)
    Lol. I'm sorry.
    It just looked really gross, like I dunno, some sort of disease cell.
    http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/forever-alone

    learn2internets

    And OP, your relationship is over so move on and try to find some normal *****.
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    you believe there is no chance she would want to get back with me after i told her to stay out my life and she deleted herself?

    i dont want to sound like i need her but id love to give it a shot

    maybe im being stupid

    Well anything is possible I guess... if you really want her then sure go ahead and give it another shot and see what happens
    • #3
    #3

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    anon or delete as girlfriend knows im on this

    been with my girlfriend for 2 years, lately we have broke up and got back together so many times over fights

    i finally ended things and explained why in a text, saying she has no respect for me, she is aggresive and i want her out of my life for good

    now ive come to realise i think the reason she disrespected me was maybe because i was so emotionally cold with her? i never complimented her or made her feel worthy at all, it got to the point where we were both trying to be nastier than the other one just to have the upper hand and i feel thats where all our problems lie, i dont want to run back to her because she needs to learn how to have respect but i do want to know we should give it a shot, but weve broke up that many times lately,,,, i think ive just realised where our problems lie though

    now i wont accept any more disrespect if i get her back, but how would i go about getting her back? its been 6 days since we broke up, she ignored my text id sent her (which never stated about the good times weve had) and she has removed me from facebook etc, no contact since, is it unlikely she will message me after i told her i want her gone for good?
    No, why should you just compliment her?? Women ae such attention and compliment seekers, its pathetic. Find yourself a real women who isn't constantly looking for sad re-assurance
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: December 6, 2010
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • Poll
    Did TEF Bronze Award affect your UCAS choices?
  • See more of what you like on The Student Room

    You can personalise what you see on TSR. Tell us a little about yourself to get started.

  • The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

    Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

    Quick reply
    Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.