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    How long should a couple wait until they share a bed? Just sleeping together, not sex or anything?
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    weeks/a month? depends, it varies with each couple, so decide by yourself bro/sis
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    Until they're tired?
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    (Original post by psychocustard)
    Until they're tired?
    Of having sex.
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    We've liked each other for weeks and got together a week ago. Literally he's fallen asleep with me at night almost every night this week but I've always kicked him out...
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    (Original post by psychocustard)
    Until they're tired?
    This.
    If you're one of those "sex is very special"-people, wait with the sex, but sleeping in the same bed is pretty harmless, seriously.
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    However long they feel like waiting?

    The threads on here get more stupid every day.
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    I've slept in the same bed as a couple of my friends. I was OK with sleeping on floor but they wouldn't have it. So I guess you can do it whenever you are ready.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    How long should a couple wait until they share a bed? Just sleeping together, not sex or anything?
    Why on Earth would you want to share a bed with your partner and not have sex with him/her? Why not just go through with the sex?
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    It took me and my boyfriend around a month before sleeping in the same bed (before that, I always left him pretty late at night, or vise versa)...
    Was /pretty/ harmless. xD

    But I don't reckon there is a set "time" for it, or not.
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    I stayed over at my boyfriend's for the first time three months after we got together but the reason it was that long was because I was studying for my A Levels at the time and had hardly any time, let alone setting a full night aside :P

    I think it's okay to sleep next to him at any time to be honest.. as for sex, it's up to you, whenever you feel ready, and it differs depending on whether you've known him for a while, not very long, met in a club.. etc.
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    25 minutes plus.
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    not a big deal if your not going to bang
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    I slept in my boyfriends bed a few times before we were together - no sex involved. We were just really good friends that obviously liked each other but the circumstances at the time meant that I wasn't ready for a relationship at the time
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    lol, there isnt a set time you have to wait till to share a bed, just do it whenever, if you are close enough then there should be no issue. Me and my bf shared a bed very early days into the relashionship and wayy before anything sexual happend.

    As long as youre comftorble with it then go for it, and if your not ready for anything sexual (which from what I gather you arn't) then make sure he knows.
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    Depends kthx
 
 
 
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