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    Hi everyone, please keep anon...

    Just wondering it is okay to ask a guy to hang out like maybe go for coffee or something if he has a girlfriend? we're in the same classes and he's always lovely and friendly. i think he is a lovely person but don't want to be destroying a relationship or anything, i just want to hang out and build a friendship but will he see it that way? i dunno how do people just have a proper friendship with other people in a relationship, like where is the line drawn? or should i just leave it?

    also he has been really good to me during the year and i was thinking of getting him a small present but is this a big no as he is already with someone?

    thanks everyone
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    well form your email i you come accross genuine or genuwine as louis of xfactor would say, nevertheless meet up with him and his girlfriend and like say how much of a lovely friend he is, and hopefully she will see that your kool
    dont worry about that which is not there, hug him if you have to suggest that he is like a brother to you... ask about relationship advice, tell his girl friend in what ways hes helped ... the only time you draw a line, well is never not with friend s anyway you should have a close friendship



    hope you success



    ps coming from a second yr 6th form student who is good friends with a female class mate, who has a boy friend and he always sees me and his girfriend and does not say anything to me cos i speak to him on occassion and be cool
 
 
 
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