Help, its happening all over again! :(

Re-accepting him was fine, and catching up last night by chatting was also fine. Just don't talk to him much more if you don't want what happened last time to happen again. Just ignore him if he pops up on chat. Just because he's on your friends list, doesn't mean you need to talk all the time or even at all!

There is a guy who I have known for 2 years now (over the internet), and last year I started to talk to him as a friend on fb. Long story cut short, it got to a point where he wanted to meet me in person and go onto the next stage by making it into a solid relationship. That for me was a shock and I got really worried because he can be patronising at times. So I told him last year that we should stop talking and that I dont ever want to talk to him again. He got rrally mad and said it wasnt fair. Still I left.


So then yday he added me on fb again and I didnt know what to do so accepted! And we started to talk and he is really nice and all but I know if I continue to talk to him it will turn out into a horrible situation again!

So what do I do? Block and delete him without telling him or carry on talking and tell him gradually that I am not interested? I get this rrally butterfly/scared feeling about him
any advice is appreciated.

There is a guy who I have known for 2 years now (over the internet), and last year I started to talk to him as a friend on fb. Long story cut short, it got to a point where he wanted to meet me in person and go onto the next stage by making it into a solid relationship. That for me was a shock and I got really worried because he can be patronising at times. So I told him last year that we should stop talking and that I dont ever want to talk to him again. He got rrally mad and said it wasnt fair. Still I left.


So then yday he added me on fb again and I didnt know what to do so accepted! And we started to talk and he is really nice and all but I know if I continue to talk to him it will turn out into a horrible situation again!

So what do I do? Block and delete him without telling him or carry on talking and tell him gradually that I am not interested? I get this rrally butterfly/scared feeling about him
any advice is appreciated.

There is a guy who I have known for 2 years now (over the internet), and last year I started to talk to him as a friend on fb. Long story cut short, it got to a point where he wanted to meet me in person and go onto the next stage by making it into a solid relationship. That for me was a shock and I got really worried because he can be patronising at times. So I told him last year that we should stop talking and that I dont ever want to talk to him again. He got rrally mad and said it wasnt fair. Still I left.


So then yday he added me on fb again and I didnt know what to do so accepted! And we started to talk and he is really nice and all but I know if I continue to talk to him it will turn out into a horrible situation again!

So what do I do? Block and delete him without telling him or carry on talking and tell him gradually that I am not interested? I get this rrally butterfly/scared feeling about him
any advice is appreciated.

yes, because the internet is ONLY for pedos/perverts/rapists/murders

and real life has none of those types of people.

idiots !!! spend hours talking to someone and get shocked that they want to meet you?

Hear Hear!
Most sense i have heard all day on this site..."Oh no, this guy i always talk to suddenly wants to meet me...he is gonna rape meee/murder/everything...

Listen i have met girls off the internet and they were always proper, but i dont get you girls..you freak out because someone you have been speaking to for ages wants to meet...i mean its a bit of a no brainer..the question was bound to come along at some point.

If you didntw ant this you should of talked less, showed little interest in talking and not leading him on..as thats what i assume happened.

Girls are soo stuck up it's insane....Don't lead people on if you are not going to go with it!

Since we're here, what irks me is when girls do this

Accept you on facebook, you say hi/comment on a pic and then blocked/deleted

it's like. "oh you can look at my pics and make my look popular just don't talk to me"

Damn straight! all 100% true....majority of girls have a metal rod stuck up their backsides...especially in london

My mate a few weeks ago approached a girl and she said something like "who do you think you are talking to me!?"...wow

I'm not trying to generalise, but whenever I go to London the public usually act pretty coldly, so I'm not surprised. :P

There is a guy who I have known for 2 years now (over the internet), and last year I started to talk to him as a friend on fb. Long story cut short, it got to a point where he wanted to meet me in person and go onto the next stage by making it into a solid relationship. That for me was a shock and I got really worried because he can be patronising at times. So I told him last year that we should stop talking and that I dont ever want to talk to him again. He got rrally mad and said it wasnt fair. Still I left.


So then yday he added me on fb again and I didnt know what to do so accepted! And we started to talk and he is really nice and all but I know if I continue to talk to him it will turn out into a horrible situation again!

So what do I do? Block and delete him without telling him or carry on talking and tell him gradually that I am not interested? I get this rrally butterfly/scared feeling about him
any advice is appreciated.