Basically I've never been amazing with girls, never really had a proper girlfriend in my life (I'm 19), I had my first kiss at 18 while drunk. In fact, I've never soberly kissed a girl because the one I have kissed have always been in clubs. I'm fine when it comes to speaking to girls I'm comfortable with and I can become friends with girls eventually. Anyway, whenever I start to like a girl, I become hooked up on her for ages, there was this one girl from my course who I'm now pretty good friends with. My entire first year of Uni I had this major crush on her and was always too scared to do anything, this crush has followed me into my second year until a few days ago. I brought this girl back to my bed after a night out, did the dirty deed and we were getting along well the next morning, she had my phone number (I didn't have hers) and I was expecting her to text me (because she said she would), she didn't and the friend request I sent her on Facebook was accepted and then she deleted me. However now I've just realised that the crush I had on the other girl has completely gone and she's just a friend to me and now I just keep obsessing over why the new girl blanked me. Anyway, long story short it seems to me that it's literally impossible for me to find a girl, let alone a girlfriend. I just feel like my life is all over the place now with damn assignments in etc etc. Alright, massive story over and I'm getting back to obsessing and then attempting my essay.
Is there something wrong with me or am I just going through a weird time? watch
- Thread Starter
- 05-12-2010 17:43
- 05-12-2010 17:46
There's not something wrong with you, you're just doing something wrong. You need confidence, I can't help you with this since I'm naturally blessed with confidence, and the ability to not give a **** what people think
- 05-12-2010 18:49
Coming from a girl, I think you just need some more confidence..
and you should get to know a girl without going clubbing and just let her see you for who you are. If she knows your not very confident, and have bad luck with girls, she'll know thats just you. She'll know what to expect.
Just work on your confidence, try not to get a girl from just clubbing. Girls who go clubbing tend to have a lot of confidence.