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Usually females are praised for being virgins. It's the males who have the worst pressure! :smile:
Reply 61
We all hope you're a trolling. In the event that you aren't, you honestly went from not sleeping with anyone because you were looking for someone special to considering sleeping with a grotty prostitute? Is that so that you can tell all your childish friends who disapprove of your virginity that you have now lost it? And what if they ask to whom...?
Reply 62
There's always generally more encouragement for this option in the male threads. Small, but significant.
This is an obvious troll to me - who else could be so 'naive' about using condoms? :rolleyes:

Anyway if its not a troll: no don't see a prostitute. That's an awful quick-fix solution to a non-existant problem you have created for yourself by taking some idiots' criticisms too seriously. A virgin at 18 is nothing spectacular as a lot of people keep pointing out.
Original post by black_mamba
This is an obvious troll to me - who else could be so 'naive' about using condoms? :rolleyes:

Anyway if its not a troll: no don't see a prostitute. That's an awful quick-fix solution to a non-existant problem you have created for yourself by taking some idiots' criticisms too seriously. A virgin at 18 is nothing spectacular as a lot of people keep pointing out.


Why do you think they have all those condom and sexual health promotion campaigns? Because many people make the most blindingly obvious mistakes despite what they are repeatedly told.
Original post by Glowy Amoeba
Why do you think they have all those condom and sexual health promotion campaigns? Because many people make the most blindingly obvious mistakes despite what they are repeatedly told.


I suppose you're right. Just shocks me that OP wasn't sure if using a condom with a prostitute was an ok idea. :lol:
haha yeah I hope this turns out to be a troll, just so my opinion of mankind doesn't lower even more :yep:
Reply 67
show me a picture of yourself and i'll think about it.
Reply 68
Original post by Glowy Amoeba
haha yeah I hope this turns out to be a troll, just so my opinion of mankind doesn't lower even more :yep:


hey hey hey, don't forget freedom of thought, freedom of choice, our civil liberties and all that bullcrp :P
Reply 69
Original post by Anonymous
Lets be honest guys. You'd be absolutely raging angry if you went back o a girl's place/brought a girl back only to find out that she's a virgin. Some would be openly disgusted and leave, some will make their excuses and leave, some will begrudgingly go through with it. Nobody is exactly going to be joyous about it are they

If this is your opinion of men, you're trying to get with the wrong ones. You should never be with someone who is angry because you happen not to have had sex before - kick them out! In fact tbh I'd avoid losing your virginity on a ONS anyway, but I appreciate some people may not agree with me on that one.

Chill out and ignore people teasing you - you'll find someone soon enough, even though it doesn't seem like it right now. Going with a male escort will NOT solve your problems or teach you what to do with a guy when you do get with one.
Reply 70
Original post by Anonymous
Probably the most humiliating thread to post. So please anon for obvious reasons. Well, basically I'm a virgin girl 18, and for the past year or so I have been teased by literally everyone who found out/I told I was a virgin. It hasn't at all been for lack of opportunities. In fact, I have taken quite a bit of nastiness off a couple of guys who I didn't want to sleep with right away. Its not that Im at all religious or anything but I suppose I wanted to find someone special.
But people go their whole lives without finding someone special so waiting for that is a bit stupid. I'm not sure I want to go out to a random club and sleep with someone (I hardly go clubbing for 1 and on first meeting people think Im younger than I am cos of my blonde hair and Im petite). I also don't want to compromise one of my friendships with a guy so do you think it would be safe to get a male prostitute. Would they even be easy to find/discreet? I am in quite a big city. How old do they tend to be and what would be the price?

Its just, I think the sinking tornado to my past relationships is not wanting to have sex right away. If I can get past this first time hang up I seem to have then it should be easier.


Same, I'm a girl when it comes to sex myself. It's a terrible hang-up to have.

I don't see why buying a male prostitute is any different to meeting someone in a club... you still don't know him from Adam.
Reply 71
Original post by Planto
You wouldn't sleep with guys you were seeing so now you're considering a prostitute?

Poor trolling.


that's what i was thinking
Original post by Arekkusu

Original post by Arekkusu
Same, I'm a girl when it comes to sex myself. It's a terrible hang-up to have.

I don't see why buying a male prostitute is any different to meeting someone in a club... you still don't know him from Adam.


The prostitute would be a hot guy and knows what he is doing. That is all you need to know.
and he'd be "big". A point worth considering.
If you still haven't done it, good on you. The problem is with hiring somebody to do it, it tends not to be as satisfying (I wouldn't know, I've never actually paid for sex, but I've been told this). If you haven't done it and still want to do it, don't bother with a prostitute, or with a one-night stand, get a boyfriend/ f**k-buddy, you seem to be a wonderful girl and you shouldn't rush into anything.

It's said in an old chinese philosophy 'it's better to live one day as a tiger than a thousand as a sheep' which means you shouldn't follow the croud, what do you want for yourself? What have you always believed? Don't just throw away your virginity.

If you ever need to talk, just send me a message, I'll gladly do it :smile:

Whatever you do, regards

Sam

EDIT: Just re-read my post, saying 'I'll gladly do it' I meant I'll gladly talk back to you.
(edited 13 years ago)
Reply 75
Girls shouldn't be in a hurry cus the first time hurts.
I don't see the problem with being a virgin at 18.....I think thats really admirable and to be honest, you will regret sleeping with a prostitute in the long run. Think about how that would sound when a future bf asks who your first time was with??? Awkward =//
Troll
Reply 78
Original post by Sammyboy2210
If you still haven't done it, good on you. The problem is with hiring somebody to do it, it tends not to be as satisfying (I wouldn't know, I've never actually paid for sex, but I've been told this). If you haven't done it and still want to do it, don't bother with a prostitute, or with a one-night stand, get a boyfriend/ f**k-buddy, you seem to be a wonderful girl and you shouldn't rush into anything.

It's said in an old chinese philosophy 'it's better to live one day as a tiger than a thousand as a sheep' which means you shouldn't follow the croud, what do you want for yourself? What have you always believed? Don't just throw away your virginity.

If you ever need to talk, just send me a message, I'll gladly do it :smile:

Whatever you do, regards

Sam

EDIT: Just re-read my post, saying 'I'll gladly do it' I meant I'll gladly talk back to you.

Thank-you. Truly. Lol no, have done nothing about it yet, I have end of semester exams which are taking up MORE than all of my free time :frown:
Reply 79
male prostitues could have an STD and etcand tbh you shuddnt pay for it have sex when you feel your ready

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