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    I'm 17, I've had one girlfriend and am still a virgin. And you know what? I don't care. I'm happy I'm a virgin. In this day and age where little kids are having sex and the number of one-night stands are on the increase, I'm glad I'm still a virgin. I'm more than happy to wait for the right girl. I don't care how long that takes.

    In fact, I'm going on a date soon and if the girl I like becomes my girlfriend I don't care if she isn't ready. Sex is overrated and I'm not going to succumb to peer pressure. Never have, never will.

    Does anyone else alright with being a virgin?
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    Yeah
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    Hells yeah brutha!
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    Im 19 and proud to be a virgin
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    I'm 19, a girl, and a virgin. I'm happy enough as I am. But when i was with a crowd who all had a lot of sexual experiences and telling everyone, i did feel embarrassed.
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    dunno tbh.
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    I wouldn't ask people on TSR
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    Yep My boyfriend is willing to wait for me, so I'm good where I am.
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    Being a virgin is nothing to be proud of or ashamed.
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    Oh no, another VIRGIN thread
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    I'm not. but it's just "a thing"

    and get off your high horse, "oh I'm a virgin therefore I must be pure, better than you STD infested sex-having people you"
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    Having done a little bit of messing around, i actually preferred having done nothing at all. Made me feel a bit better about myself for some reason.
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    (Original post by Rilep)
    Being a virgin is nothing to be proud of or ashamed.
    This is how I felt about it when I was one. It just is.
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    I'm not a virgin - but if I was, yes, it wouldn't bother me.

    Takes time, patience, trust and understanding to have 'meaningful' sex.

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    (Original post by Wilzyy)
    This is how I felt about it when I was one. It just is.
    You're saying being a virgin is something to be ashamed of? If so, why?
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    No. If someone doesn't take it from me soon I might force it on them. A big dollop of virginity right in the face of anyone who misleads me regarding their sexual interest.

    I need to get rid of it .... I think I might even have two of them you know.
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    I was proud of it at 16 because so many people in my school had sex underage. I was glad not to be one of them.

    But now I'm 18... not so much. I'm not ashamed, not at all, but my being a virgin is just a status. It doesn't mean anything to me. My relationship is long distance and so that's probably why I've not had sex yet, haha.
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    I don't know if "proud" is the right word... I mean, I know I'll be happier when I'm with someone I care about then some random ONS or something. I think the whole "haha loser you're a virgin" peer pressure thing kind of goes away after the age of 16. Ironically.

    But some people have already found that person, and others don't find them until later on. To others, it just doesn't mean as much. I don't think being a virgin makes you better than anyone else - it's just your choice.
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    (Original post by Rilep)
    You're saying being a virgin is something to be ashamed of? If so, why?
    Noooo...
    I said being a virgin just is.. lol like it's just a thing..
    Basically I agreed with you.
 
 
 
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