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    hello everyone. I have a huge problem which is ruining my life:i have too much pride to smile bck at a guy,to show tht i am interested, and tht i would not mind being talked to. I am 20 and have never been in a relationship bc i am scared tht the guy just wants to take advantage of me, just wants the physical contact. Plus i just want to know one guy in my life, nt a succession of bf. So wat can i do to overcome these two complexex?
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    I would't call that pride
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    probably more scared of putting yourself in a compromising situation. We all do it, but you have to try and overcome it.

    Just remember though, pride or not, the only loser in these situations is you.
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    I would't call that pride
    wat wud u call it then?
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    OP, all the guy really wants is to have intercourse on a regular schedule on the off chance that it'll feel nice than his hand and get him off better than watching other people do it. avoid us or learn to be a recepticle.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    wat wud u call it then?
    Your to proud to smile at guys? Sound more like a stuck up *****
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    Your to proud to smile at guys? Sound more like a stuck up *****
    i did not use swear words at u, so please reply in a respectful manner. Of all the things i could be called, ***** is the least accurate. Dnt reply n get out of my post u sex addict
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i did not use swear words at u, so please reply in a respectful manner. Of all the things i could be called, ***** is the least accurate. Dnt reply n get out of my post u sex addict
    Teh hell?:confused:
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    ANON OR DELETE - Related to an Anonymous thread I have posted.

    I have the same exact feelings as you, except i'm 21, LOL! I wouldn't say its pride exactly, I think its more fear of rejection. There's this guy in one of my lectures that I caught staring at me. But I was so confused as to why he was staring that I just couldn't bring myself to smile at him. Don't worry, you just have to put yourself out there and see what happens. Life's all about risks, you won't know until you try it!
 
 
 
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