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    OK I'll try and keep this short. I've known this girl for 2 weeks and we've both developed feelings for each other (I know that she has because she's told me, and I've told her how I feel as well). We've kissed but thats as far as its gone to this point. Here's where it gets a little complicated. She's "seeing" this other bloke, although she said she's not sure if she wants to be with him, they've been out twice and had sex after their 2nd date. Me and this girl are also gonna be living with each other next year, and its a combination of these two things that are confusing her as to what to do next. Basically do I persist in trying to persuade her that it could work between us, or leave it and risk something happening when we live together next year, by which point we might both be going out with different people?
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    Leave it until she makes a decision. You'll seem pushy and impatient and only after 1 thing if you persist.
 
 
 
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