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    I am gay because whenever I masturbate I watch gay porn. When I see boys in the street I can't help but think "wow he's hot".

    I can't seem to slot into the gay community. I've never been in a gay relationship or done anything sexual with boys.

    I have convinced myself I'm in a phase of being gay & one day I will wake up and be straight. That sounds unrealistic but I'm utterly convinced.

    I am out - my mum and dad know - but I still feel confused.

    By the way I'm still a virgin. I feel seriously immature and lonely.
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    Have you been physically intimate with anyone from either gender?

    I'm no expert, but surely just because you watch gay porn, it doesn't make you gay. I like watching girls kiss, but it doesn't make me want to kiss a girl.

    Why do you need to put a label on it? What's wrong with going with the flow and just meeting people - if you connect with someone and want to be with them physically and romantically, then great. Why do you have to be 'gay' or 'straight' - just experiment and see how you feel. You may have an experience with a guy and think 'never again' but then you may enjoy it and it may be natural to you.

    Stop trying to put yourself in a category and let it happen naturally.
 
 
 
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