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    Whether it's with friendsor boys or family or teachers or any person i know,
    I always have to do LOTS more stuff than anyone else to even get a little bit of attention or to let them be aware of my existence...
    with friends..If there's 2 or 3 of us I'm always the one dissed..
    like the other day i fell out with a friend and i told my other friend to not to talk to her or at least not mention what she does with her when she's with me..just for respect but she doesn't care about it at all.
    same with boys..I felt sorry for a girl who just came to England ad didn't know a word of Englsh or anybody and was pretty freaked out about everything..so I was mega-nice (which i regret) i became friends with her,taught her evrything gained her confidence,now the guy i like askes HER out.
    same with family,teachers and everyone..

    I mean i know i'm this excellent superbeing but I'm not a horrible monster.
    I'm always so nice to people.
    I can't trust ANYONE in not leaving me.
    i guess that's all i need.respect,love trust.
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    chill out and stop trying to please people
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    'chose'?
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    Maybe you give off an '**** off' look without noticing, or perhaps you're just unlucky.

    Always look on the bright side of life chaps
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    You need to start looking after number 1, number 1 being you!! Put yourself first stop being so available and I bet you will get more respect
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    same with boys..I felt sorry for a girl who just came to England ad didn't know a word of Englsh or anybody and was pretty freaked out about everything..so I was mega-nice (which i regret) i became friends with her,taught her evrything gained her confidence,now the guy i like askes HER out.
    WHAT THE ****??? You said it like it's her fault, why don't you ask yourself why didn't he choose you. Stop winning (yeah, maybe that's one of the reason why he asked her out instead of you)
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    You might be a super human being but nobody likes a people pleaser except when they need something. Lets be honest, we don't really make friends based on how nice a person is to us (within reason). It's because we see traits that we like in that person and we aspire to be at least a little like that person. My closest friends all have their unique traits, one's really funny, another one i can ramble on to and he'll listen to me and another one I have a lot of things in common with him so i talk to him about those things. Examine yourself and find something you like about yourself, I guarantee there is one thing. Improve on that and try to show it to other people (without being a show off). I'm not a comedian or anything but i found i can make some people laugh and I think they wanted to be friends with me because they find me fun to be around (though they're not my true friends, well they are, but not my closest.)

    Hope this helps
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    You are needy

    "chose me" :wtf:
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    stop being so bloody self-intrested, or attention seeking. maybe if you do something nice for someone else you'll get this attention you so badly crave
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    I kinda know how you feel :console:. Similar happens to me too :sigh:. It kinda sucks, but you've just got to shrug it off :dontknow:. It's impossible to get everybody around you to like you, no matter how you are, but you shouldn't really need that anyway. Just be content with the friends who do appreciate you for you, and forget about other people who don't, as they're not really worth wasting your energy worrying about.
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    be less nice.
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    That's just the way life is for some people. :nopity: Stop acting like you give a **** so much or get some better friends.
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    U smell?
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    You're probably the minger of the group.
 
 
 
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