Raised eyebrow

Umm, i'm 18 and in college. theres this new student teacher that i've kinda thought was nice lookin but way outtta my league. then a couple weeks he started noticing me and smiling at me. he initiated out first conversation and acted like we'd been friends for years e.g. teasing me, punching me lightly and taking the piss in a nice way. it just felt so natural. then i was walkin past him the other day and he was goin the opposite way. he just raised his eyebrow in this totally sexy way. now the problem is this guy switched carrers late and is like 28,29. do u duys thinks theres any indication from his actions so far that he likes me or not?

Reply 1

blissy

I think you need to be very mature and realise that there is NO WAY you could ever have a relationship with him. Even reciprocating flirting would be wrong. Yeah, have a secret crush on him if you must, but don't act on ANYTHING!

Reply 2

Max Power

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'That's a matter of opinion and i don't give a f*** about yours!''

Reply 3

Helen_w

Absolutely not. Do not even go there under any circumstances. Unless you WANT to be kicked out of college of course :wink:

Reply 4

Emerald

but i figured cos he doesnt teach me its ok. and a teacher in my college went out with a student and nothing was done. anyways at the moment i'm not thinking about acting on my feelings, i'm trying to figure out whether he has any feelings for me :confused:

Reply 5

Gem

I agree with Blissy, nothing can happen when you are a student and he is your teacher. It's wrong of him to behave this way at all. :frown:

Reply 6

xelprep

i'm suprised at some of these posts. if your 18 there's nothing wrong with it at all. just do what your heart wants you to do.

Reply 7

blissy

xelprep

i'm suprised at some of these posts. if your 18 there's nothing wrong with it at all. just do what your heart wants you to do.

Well she appears to be 17 for one thing - something isn't matching up there. Secondly, you would be wise to wait till you're out of school before starting a relationship with a staff member.

edit: and another thing - what 28 year old man goes out with an 18 year old?! He has to be insane. There is such a huge difference in maturity there!

Reply 8

Emerald

bout a month away from 18 so i guess i am still 17 :redface:

and also we do seem to have alot of common and i know quite a few people who have ten years age diff. this whole thing has just ... :frown:

Reply 9

blissy

Ramy

bout a month away from 18 so i guess i am still 17 :redface:

and also we do seem to have alot of common and i know quite a few people who have ten years age diff. this whole thing has just ... :frown:

It's not ust ten years, it's those particular ten years. I've changed SO much since I was 18 and that was only 2 years ago!

Anyway, I don't think a raised eyebrow is really much of an indication of anything. I raise my eyebrow quite a lot in shock or disapproval, are you sure it wasn't that :p:

Reply 10

Emerald

i know it doesnt seem like much but its just the tip of the iceberg for me. theres been other things like winking and comments which i just disregarded but after the eyebrow thing, i just kinda mentally took a step backward and thought whats going on here?

Reply 11

Helen_w

Ramy

this whole thing has just ... :frown:

Forgive me for this, but you don't seem very comfortable with it.

Reply 12

Emerald

Helen_w

Forgive me for this, but you don't seem very comfortable with it.

its just if liking him is thinking about him all the time and my heart racing when i see him or think its him then i really like him and i've got it bad :love:

BUT there could also be alot of potential problems which is where my uncomfortableness comes in. when i thought i just had a crush on him it was ok, but if theres a chance of feelings being reciprocated then i guess its a whole other ball game.

Reply 13

Twaffy

A girl in the 6th form in my school went out with a music teacher. The music teacher is now in prison. Think carefully before you do anything like that

Reply 14

Emerald

Twaffy

A girl in the 6th form in my school went out with a music teacher. The music teacher is now in prison. Think carefully before you do anything like that

Reply 15

Geogger

Keep well out of it for both your sakes. Within a school/ college all relationships between all staff and all students have to be conducted on a professional basis. It doesn't matter whether he is teaching you or not, he is still a member of the staff body there. He should realise that this would be a stupid thing to do for his career. If he doesn't think so, you should and if he makes any advances, just say that nothing can happen whilst you are still at college/ school.

Reply 16

Oziris

Twaffy

A girl in the 6th form in my school went out with a music teacher. The music teacher is now in prison. Think carefully before you do anything like that