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    I'm 21, decent looking(not adonis but not terribly ugly either), got a good sense of humour, a bit overweight, loads of interests and a really talkative person once you get to know me though I can be a bit shy and quiet at first. I've just had one proper relationship till now. I am the kind of guy who likes to be in serious relationships(WHICH I THOUGHT GIRLS LIKED) and don't believe in just screwing around.
    I see people around me who are complete ********s and who have girlfriends. They treat their girls like **** yet those girls are totally in love with them. I see incredibly ugly and boring guys with girlfriends.
    I want somebody to love.
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    Ha. I know how you feel.
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    You haven't found the right person yet, but you will mate. You will.
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    (Original post by varunjog)
    I'm 21, decent looking(not adonis but not terribly ugly either), got a good sense of humour, a bit overweight, loads of interests and a really talkative person once you get to know me though I can be a bit shy and quiet at first. I've just had one proper relationship till now. I am the kind of guy who likes to be in serious relationships(WHICH I THOUGHT GIRLS LIKED) and don't believe in just screwing around.
    I see people around me who are complete ********s and who have girlfriends. They treat their girls like **** yet those girls are totally in love with them. I see incredibly ugly and boring guys with girlfriends.
    I want somebody to love
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    Ha, you think you're better than everyone else. What a ****.
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    (Original post by Anonymous-)
    Ha, you think you're better than everyone else. What a ****.
    not at all..i'm just saying that when there are people like that who have girlfriends, why can't i get one? and yes, i'm not better than everyone else but I am better than some people out there.
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    You mean you don't send erotic literature to people via personal messaging in the hope of no strings attached sex?

    which is what i seem to be getting alot from TSR.

    ....

    on serious note, just keep waiting, someone nice will come along soon.
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    (Original post by DesignFreak)
    You mean you don't send erotic literature to people via personal messaging in the hope of no strings attached sex?

    which is what i seem to be getting alot from TSR.

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    on serious note, just keep waiting, someone nice will come along soon.
    how do I go about looking for a girlfriend? I've been 'waiting for someone nice to come along' for over a year now.
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    (Original post by varunjog)
    not at all..i'm just saying that when there are people like that who have girlfriends, why can't i get one? and yes, i'm not better than everyone else but I am better than some people out there.
    Looks
    Personality
    Overweight
    Not in the right places
    Many more factors
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    Hang in there.
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    (Original post by kristinaalovesu)
    Hang in there.
    are you interested :P
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    Try losing some weight, being less of a passive participant and actually ask some girls out?
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    Are you actually asking girls out?
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    (Original post by HistoryRepeating)
    Try losing some weight, being less of a passive participant and actually ask some girls out?
    it's not like i'm enormous..and weight has nothing to do with it..
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    (Original post by varunjog)
    are you interested :P
    She has a boyfriend

    Also knowing her, even if she was single and interested, she wouldnt tell you.

    And then if you did somehow end up going out, you'd be lucky if you had sex once every couple of months.

    :P
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    (Original post by `R92)
    Are you actually asking girls out?
    I haven't found the right girl to ask out yet.
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    (Original post by varunjog)
    it's not like i'm enormous..and weight has nothing to do with it..
    Its your personality then, sorry.
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    you just need to know how to sell yourself. getting gf is like going out in market and selling your product, if u are loud and display your products well, ppl will buy them. Same is the case with girls, make yourself approachable and try things to make girls notice you.
    You cant just stand in corner and hope for best...go and make things happen for yourself.
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    (Original post by HistoryRepeating)
    Try losing some weight, being less of a passive participant and actually ask some girls out?
    if you're interested..this is how i look
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i3_b-th1zmc
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    (Original post by varunjog)
    I haven't found the right girl to ask out yet.
    Well thats your problem then, girls will basically never be the ones to ask you out you have to do it yourself
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    (Original post by HistoryRepeating)
    She has a boyfriend

    Also knowing her, even if she was single and interested, she wouldnt tell you.

    And then if you did somehow end up going out, you'd be lucky if you had sex once every couple of months.

    :P
    I am impressed. :congrats:

    Soo close, but I've been single for almost a month now. :mmm:
 
 
 
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