about the orgasm, male problems

i'm not the first one to start a topic about it... but this one might be a bit different.

ofcourse most of you guys & girls know about guys having an ejaculation/orgasm to early...

but how about guys having no ejaculation/orgasm at all?

how do girls think about that?
apart from it being an advantage for some girls...be honest, would you think different about someone who has problems with it?
would it make you feel as if you weren't good enough in bed?

and how do you guys feel about it (the ones who it happens to ofcourse)
do you feel bad about it?
does it make you feel as if you failed?

i'm not shy or anything so i can just say it, for me it is very difficult and it takes a lot of time before it could happen...sometimes it happens but mostly it doesn't and i just give up...
i feel bad about it even though there isn't anything i can do about it.
i never heard any other guys complaning about it so i don't know if it is a common problem...

please let me know what you think and what your opinions are...

Reply 1

musicbloke

17

stop w**king so much.

MB

Reply 2

herzog

does w**king actually stop u havin orgasms?????

Reply 3

musicbloke

17

herzog

does w**king actually stop u havin orgasms?????

it will make you last longer.

MB

Reply 4

Talya

16

musicbloke

it will make you last longer.

True in some cases. Not all.

Reply 5

asgardrune

OP

1

musicbloke

it will make you last longer.

MB

and pigs can fly...

Reply 6

flyboy123

2

herzog

does w**king actually stop u havin orgasms?????

Now theres a worried boy

Reply 7

username9303

3

asgardrune

and pigs can fly...

oh how naive. i've said this before in a previous thread, and it looks like i'm going to have to delve into my personal life once more - trust me (from personal experience) if you **** several times a day, every day - within a few years you will practically be the only person who can make you orgasm. Ask my girl, she gets unbelievably frustrated because she can't make me cum, but doesnt complain when it means i never have to stop because i have cum.

ollie :biggrin:

Reply 8

asgardrune

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1

olliemccowan

oh how naive. i've said this before in a previous thread, and it looks like i'm going to have to delve into my personal life once more - trust me (from personal experience) if you **** several times a day, every day - within a few years you will practically be the only person who can make you orgasm. Ask my girl, she gets unbelievably frustrated because she can't make me cum, but doesnt complain when it means i never have to stop because i have cum.

ollie :biggrin:

why would i trust an 18 year old about sex? :biggrin:

Reply 9

username9303

3

asgardrune

why would i trust an 18 year old about sex? :biggrin:

lol well the fact you havent worked out in your 25 years on this planet that ****ing regularly increases your ability to last longer then perhaps you aren't as sexually wise as you think.

Reply 10

asgardrune

OP

1

olliemccowan

lol well the fact you havent worked out in your 25 years on this planet that ****ing regularly increases your ability to last longer then perhaps you aren't as sexually wise as you think.

look, i never talked about ****ing, fact is the problem could be there even if a person doesn't ****...and there is no research to prove that ****ink has an infuence on how long you can last.

Reply 11

Fire Point

12

Tis true, the more you ****, the longer it takes to cum and youll find most girls love it if guys can go for ages.

Reply 12

Helenia

20

Don't avoid the swear filter folks, I'm getting bored with editing.

Ollie - being able to go on for ages is all well and good, but it can't make your gf feel very good if she can never do anything for you because you can only do it yourself.

Reply 13

asgardrune

OP

1

okay let's try a different approach

guy no.1 has the problem...he never ****s...so how should he solve it?

guy no.2 has the problem...****s all the time but its a medical problem...

try again. and just forget about the ****ing for the rest of this thread

Reply 14

username9303

3

Helenia

Ollie - being able to go on for ages is all well and good, but it can't make your gf feel very good if she can never do anything for you because you can only do it yourself.

well its a positive and a negative thats for sure. like you said, she doesn't like it that she cant make me cum, but she does make me horny enough, i just have to take the final step if you catch my drift?

Reply 15

keyka

they're right- i can tell when my guy hasnt done it for a while because hes barely had time to remove his trousers before he cums!
however you can get problems without that being the issue. if youve tried making sure you're really relaxed and comfotable with your surroundings (ie, no worry that a parent or sibling might walk in on you) and its still not helped then go to your doc, they can probably tell you what the problem is and give you something to help.

Reply 16

musicbloke

17

Helenia

Don't avoid the swear filter folks, I'm getting bored with editing.

Ollie - being able to go on for ages is all well and good, but it can't make your gf feel very good if she can never do anything for you because you can only do it yourself.

actually the word '****' wasn't on the swear filter before.

MB

Reply 17

willey

4

olliemccowan

oh how naive. i've said this before in a previous thread, and it looks like i'm going to have to delve into my personal life once more - trust me (from personal experience) if you **** several times a day, every day - within a few years you will practically be the only person who can make you orgasm. Ask my girl, she gets unbelievably frustrated because she can't make me cum, but doesnt complain when it means i never have to stop because i have cum.

ollie :biggrin:

what a load of nonsense, "within a few years you will practically be the only one who can make yourself orgasm"? sorry but that is well and truley wrong. have you ever thought that maybe your girl is doing something wrong for you not to orgasm?

if say the first time you have sex with your girlfriend you dont last that long, then the likelyhood is that you will last much longer the next time you have sex with her, if its not long after the first.

Reply 18

Duck and Cover

15

Girls - don't worry if your guy doesn't come, dont see it as "I cant MAKE him come", k? Personally I know that even with the same girl it varies SO much, too many people think all a guy needs is to do is to think of sex and he's come. :biggrin:

Reply 19

asgardrune

OP

1

but no one else hase this problem?

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