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    A few weeks ago at his birthday party, a friend of mine made a move on me and told me he'd liked me for a really long time. I didn't and don't feel the same but he asked me to consider dating him and as an appeasement I did for a couple of days but quickly told him it was still a no. He was gutted. Now where this gets tricky is that I've liked his brother for a long time. I haven't done anything because his brother is 15, 16 in July and I'm nearly 18. However I really, really like the brother despite his age and he likes me too but obviously aside from the age difference we're really concerned about hurting his brother. Advice?
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    (Original post by tremblingheart)
    A few weeks ago at his birthday party, a friend of mine made a move on me and told me he'd liked me for a really long time. I didn't and don't feel the same but he asked me to consider dating him and as an appeasement I did for a couple of days but quickly told him it was still a no. He was gutted. Now where this gets tricky is that I've liked his brother for a long time. I haven't done anything because his brother is 15, 16 in July and I'm nearly 18. However I really, really like the brother despite his age and he likes me too but obviously aside from the age difference we're really concerned about hurting his brother. Advice?
    Lol this wont end well!
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    i just came across this by chance lol oooh that's a tough problem i think maybe you should let everything settle for a while first because the guy will clearly be gutted otherwise and then, i guess, be open and honest when you feel comfortable to talk about it with the older brother. It's tough tho I know!
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    (Original post by Law123mus)
    Lol this wont end well!
    Roger that!
 
 
 
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