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    Morning people,

    Basically, I really like this girl who I met on my course a few weeks ago, she's been round to mine, we've got close and I asked her out on a date and she said yep. She put it off on two occasions and then sent me a really long text where she said she still really liked me but she was busy at the moment and needed time to get over her ex.

    In the meantime another girl has been telling me to leave the first girl alone because i'll be 'better off without her'. We spend a lot of time together, phone each other etc. Now i've found out that this girl also likes me as has confided in one of my friends - she is texting me loads, and i'm concerned because we're due to go on a night out soon as a group and i'm concerned she's maybe going to try things on. Problem is, I use to like this girl until I met the one i've been asking out.

    So, what on earth do I do? Do I trust the girl I really like and hope she's not wasting my time, and leave things with the other girl?

    It's just a minefield and I just don't know what to do!

    Any ideas?

    Thanks a lot!
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    I think maybe you should talk to the first girl, see whats what? See where you stand with her.. Then take things from there, just be there for her, let her know that you can be her friend that she confides in, and things may escalate from friends to more..
 
 
 
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