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    And that apparently it's normal, all guys do it.

    I understood when he mentioned porn, etc, but irl girls, whom they both know, or just he knows (from work, etc) and speaks to regularly on facebook/text??

    Guys, do you do this or is he just a bit...?

    Girls, do you do it too and what do you think of guys who do it?

    He claims that all he does is think of sex/sexual activity, not like he acts upon it, hence it's fine.

    Wth :/
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    He finds other girls sexually attractive - Normal (probably).

    But more than his own gf (regardless of if he doesn't act upon it)?
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    Srsly?
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    Is he also a fatty? :holmes:
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    If you ever put a pic up on tsr yu know whats going to happen :ninja:
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    Of course it's normal? i mean i take it that he's older than 10right? maybe in his teens? hey who doesn't i. lets me honest. have you never looked at certain boys and thought the same? it's fine dont worry about it. could you be jealous perhaps?
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    That he fantasises about them doesn't mean he fancies them more than you.
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    (Original post by markberry91)
    Of course it's normal? i mean i take it that he's older than 10right? maybe in his teens? hey who doesn't i. lets me honest. have you never looked at certain boys and thought the same? it's fine dont worry about it. could you be jealous perhaps?

    tbh no.
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    I didn't know sexual attraction was the only thing a relationship is based on.
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    That's normal.

    Stop making threads now.
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    Thats normal blud! xD
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    (Original post by Blueflare)
    That's normal.

    Stop making threads now.
    You're okay with your bf w***ing over your best mate?

    I'm a guy btw guys, he's just telling me his 'feelings' on MSN...
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    yes this is normal
    yes girls do it to
    no not all boys and all girls I assume there is probably exceptions
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    (Original post by boba)
    yes this is normal
    yes girls do it to
    no not all boys and all girls I assume there is probably exceptions
    Read post 12 and tell me that's normal? :erm:
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    (Original post by FattyInNeed)
    Read post 12 and tell me that's normal? :erm:
    I don't really know is its normal or not I've never actually asked my boyfriend what he thinks of when he does and I don't really think he would tell me if it was my best friend. I don't think it would be a very nice thing to hear but unfortunately I don't think it would be as unusual as people would like to think. It would be more of an issue if it was him thinking about my best friend all the time but if it happened once or twice I wouldn't be particularly happy but I wouldn't hold it against him i think most peoples minds have wandered to people other than there partner at some time during sexual activity
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    Well if that is normal, I am sincerely disappointed of our society.
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    How could he?
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    (Original post by FattyInNeed)
    And that apparently it's normal, all guys do it.

    I understood when he mentioned porn, etc, but irl girls, whom they both know, or just he knows (from work, etc) and speaks to regularly on facebook/text??

    Guys, do you do this or is he just a bit...?

    Girls, do you do it too and what do you think of guys who do it?

    He claims that all he does is think of sex/sexual activity, not like he acts upon it, hence it's fine.

    Wth :/
    what's odd about that.
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    (Original post by FattyInNeed)
    You're okay with your bf w***ing over your best mate?

    I'm a guy btw guys, he's just telling me his 'feelings' on MSN...
    Yes. I'm not a possessive and controlling person who needs to control my boyfriend's thoughts. It's impossible anyway so what's the point getting all upset about it?
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    (Original post by Sapientia)
    what's odd about that.
    Do you toss off to other girls other than your gf too?
 
 
 
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